For your enjoyment here are two pictures. The top one depicts a young Mother Cabrini and the bottom is the shrine in NY. On a personal note, I had the privilege of visiting this shrine. I did not know until I got there that at the shrine, her body lies beneath the altar. My great grandmother considered it a privilege just to mop the school floors on which this great saint walked and there I found myself, so close to her body. Because of our family's devotion to her, she is the namesake of our youngest son. Mother Cabrini, ora pro nobis!
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For your enjoyment here are two pictures. The top one depicts a young Mother Cabrini and the bottom is the shrine in NY. On a personal note, I had the privilege of visiting this shrine. I did not know until I got there that at the shrine, her body lies beneath the altar. My great grandmother considered it a privilege just to mop the school floors on which this great saint walked and there I found myself, so close to her body. Because of our family's devotion to her, she is the namesake of our youngest son. Mother Cabrini, ora pro nobis!
Re: "Do not care" (letters, Aug. 27).
The feelings of loss that accompany change of this kind are not being ignored. In fact, unlike other dioceses that have moved far more quickly with parish reconfigurations, the bishop insisted there be a period of 12 to 24 months before he issued decrees formally establishing new parishes. He did this in recognition of the sense of loss he knew would be experienced and to give parishes adequate time to prepare to come together.
During this time, he has heard personally from parishioners in every part of the diocese and has acknowledged the disappointment many naturally feel. The fact is, if he didn't care, he would not be taking steps to address the needs of Catholics in South Jersey. If he didn't care, he wouldn't be working to reverse downward trends in religious practice.
The fact is, it is precisely because the bishop cares so deeply about the well-being of parishioners and because of his great love for the Church and the people of South Jersey that he has undertaken the effort now under way to strengthen parishes and improve care to the people.
ANDREW WALTON Office of Communications Diocese of Camden Camden
Andy's talking about the beautiful St. Gregory's (above) in Magnolia. Galante, McGrath, and Walton "care" so much they seem to have sold the property to Wawa. Who do they think they're fooling? We've got pictures of the surveyors sent to us by a concerned reader back last Christmas. Money talks, and to the tune of 10 million dollars, apparently. Empathy my foot. It's prime real estate.
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"Downward trends in religious practice":
As to the misleading demographic information continually touted by Mr. Walton, we've addressed it numerous times. It's lies. Just look here and here and here. All you have to do is look on a map to see where Magnolia is to know that the Catholic population in that area can only be expanding, not decreasing. We're not talking rural Fairton, Cumberland County here or Dennis Township, Cape May County. We're talking close proximity to Philadelphia in a congested, continually expanding area of South Jersey.
The plain fact is that the Catholic population in NJ and in South Jersey in particular is dramatically increasing. In fact the Catholic population in NJ has increased by at least 2.5% since 1990, by roughly 100,000 people. In Gloucester County alone we're looking at a Catholic increase of at least 20% since 1990. The Catholic population is only decreasing in South Jersey's only true urban centers, Camden and Atlantic City, as illustrated below:
Deptford Salem County Camden Atlantic City
1950 7,304 49,508 124,555 61,657
1960 17,878 58,711 117,159 59,544
2006-7* 30,529 66,595 80,010 39,684
*most recent available estimate
"Reversing Downward Trends":Do they really care about reversing supposed downward trends or about justifying their own agenda? If all they care about is giving people what they want, they should stop watering down the Faith and desiring to build protestant style megachurches. And if they are truly targeting young adults, as they should, this group wants one of two things, neither of which the Diocese of Camden is offering: (1) an authentic and unapologetic Christianity, or (2) at the very least, clarity and a lack of hypocrisy. This is why you see the most traditional churches and religious orders growing. Alternately those who are leaving the Church are leaving for a protestantism whose Christianity is clear and faith exacting. Others who leave leave the Faith and stay away out of disgust for the likes of people like Walton and others who pretend religion but in reality have nothing but political motives. See these comments on Andy's letter, for example:
bjd0305:
It is more effective to have fewer churches with more people in them. god is a hell of a businessmanCase in point. House of "Charity" anyone?
9/2/2009 8:27:08 AM
firebird 7478 replying to bjd0305:
Which is why he's always asking for more money.
9/2/2009 10:41:42 AM
"Feelings of Loss that Accompany Change":
We addressed this patronizing attitude just the other day. So we quote ourselves!
They have spewed psychobabble pertaining to the alleged difficulty that we, the laity have coping with change. This kind of patronizing dribble is without merit because it fails to address the purpose of the change and merely holds up "change" as having inherent value. This type of rhetoric attempts to put the Catholic faithful on the defensive, as if we have to prove our ability to healthily cope with change by accepting the destruction of our parishes. The question remains, is the change we are expected to embrace a change toward the Good, toward God's Will, toward God Himself? What are we supposed to be changing to?"Heard Personally From Parishioners":
And, apparently, listened to few of them. Go ahead and ask St. Gregory's how "listened to" they're feeling right about now. They got "listened" right into closure.
Here is the article:
We live in a culture where it has become popular to promote incomplete ideas. Choice, change and even love are raised high as banners harkening to more elevated paths. But without truth these are paths most notable for their lack of destination. Such emotionally-charged words certainly do refererence authentic aspirations in human nature, but when raised as an empty battle cry they are most unhelpful in indicating the direction of the charge.
The value of a choice is determined by what is chosen. Change is only good when what something is changed to is preferable to what it is changed from. And even love derives its beauty from what is loved. When St. Bernadette was asked what a sinner is, she replied that a sinner is someone who loves evil. It is possible to love evil, just as it is possible to choose evil and possible to change into an evil person.
Many years ago I awoke one morning, shaken by a very vivid dream. It was a dream about two Kingdoms, ruled by two very different Masters. What I remember most clearly about this dream was the conviction that I had upon waking that it would be infinitely better to be a dog in Heaven than to be the highest underling of the devil inhell. These are very different Masters.
As Catholics we do not believe that good and evil are equal forces. We do not believe that God has a real rival in the devil. God is sovereign and even the evil He permits will serve His goodness in the end. Yet, for each of us the choice between good and evil is a real one, and which we choose to love will determine not only where we will go at the end of our life but what we weill BE. Those choices are determining us even now.
We tend to view the consequences of our choices as something external to ourselves, reward or punishment, praise or blame, success or failure. It is true that our choices do have ramifications in the world around us, but we too easily forget that they also have an effect on the world within us. Our choices change us. They cooperate in making us who we are.
If I lie, I become a liar. If I steal, I become a thief. If I rejoice in ean-spirited actions, I become a mean-spirited person. To be sure, it is possible to free ourselves from sinful choices, precisely by repenting of them, but unti we do that they are a force in deterining who we are. We can deform our own characters by embracing evil and neglecting to seek the good. The potential that we have for being beautiful, shining reflections of the God Who created us can go eternally unfulfilled.
This reality is not dependent on anyone's opinion or perception. We aren't good because we are praised. we aren't good because we can convince people that we are good. We are only good to the degree that we love the good, serve the good, choose the good. Whether these choices are hidden or manifest, they make us what we are.
"The issue now is clear. It is between light and darkness and everyone must choose his side." (the last words of G.K. Chesterton)
a picture slideshow from the procession, hay ride, talent show, bands, inflatables, food and games booths, and more.Thank yous
(focusing on Day 2)
- Thank you to all who performed at the talent show, including
Eric King's Art In Motion Karate of Vineland (photo right), Jim Wilson, our parish music director who organized the talent and music (above), and all the participants.
- A special thank you is in order for Joe Posiadlo for his construction of an amazing and beautiful bier for Our Lady (see photo below). We're sure it will be used for many years to come.
While we're at it with the thank yous, we should make sure we thank both of Sunday's bands, Mr. Tujays (right and above) and Jukebox Review. Both were excellent and so much fun, too. Thanks to Mr. Tujays for donating your time and talent to the church. We were so impressed with both bands--please make sure you catch them if you can! Both of these great classic rock/oldies bands are those of members of our parish, Jim Wilson and Kevin Kelton.
A big, gigantic thank you to Ollie and Corie from Plagido's Winery, Hammonton (right). We cannot begin to express all the complimentary feedback we received about your wines and sangria. In the words of one of our parishioners, "Now I know where I'm going to get my Christmas wine." Me too! (And Halloween wine, and Thanksgiving wine, and Easter wine, etc.) Please be sure and patronize this wonderful winery, open 7 days a week and owned by two of the very nicest people you'd ever want to meet. (Be sure to try the "Plagido's Choice.")
- We would be remiss if we
neglected to mention all the many people who gave of their time and talents to make this weekend possible, from planning to making phone calls to soliciting donations to stapling adbooks to setting up tables to answering the phones during and leading up to the feast to manning the booths to dressing up as a clown (???)...you name it. We are sure we'll forget someone in this list, but thank you to Dee Posiadlo, Kathie Ramos, JV (right), Tim Trace, Diane Trace, Bill DiMatteo, Mike and Danny Vassallo, Nancy Pantaleo, and most of all to the wonderful, talented, and unassuming Leah Vassallo. Leah, you are awesome. (Leah you can stop blushing and look at the pictures now.) Thank you to EVERYONE who worked so hard for Our Lady and for our parish. Please forgive me if I have forgotten you, my mind is like a sieve
sometimes.
By the way, I have not yet had time to touch up any of the photos so if there are any blurry or sideways ones, I apologize! Hopefully I will have some videos for you soon. If any of you have photos you'd like to submit, please feel free to send them to us. The same goes for anyone who'd like to make any comments about their experiences at this year's feast. It was a great success.
by William Sansalone, historian and
"native of St. Mary's now residing in the Washington, D.C. area"
Most of St. Mary's founders were immigrants from Europe, and virtually all of their native villages had a patron saint. On that saint's feast day, the pastor celebrated a High Mass, and his parishioners organized a parade to honor "their" saint. Afterward, a public gathering took place featuring music, games, food, and fireworks.
Because St. Mary's of Malaga was named for the Blessed Mother, the Feast of the Assumption became--and has been--the parish's main celebratory event since the church's beginning in 1922. Back then, Mr. Giovanni Di Matteo, one of the parish's founders, was the main organizer of this mid-August feast. These celebrations replicated, in Malaga, the fondly remembered festivals of the Old World.
Parishioners blessed with long years and clear memories can still recall the sight of the statue of the Blessed Mother--festooned with ribbons on which worshipers had pinned dollar bills--being hoisted onto the shoulders of young men for the parade after the High Mass on Sunday morning. They can recall the sound of the Red, White, and Blue Band as it marched behind the statue westward on Dutch Mill Road almost as far as Malaga Lake.
As the young men carrying the statue of the Blessed Mother approached the Malaga Post Office--then situated on the northwest corner of what is now Old Dutch Mill Road and Old Delsea Drive--Mr. Corval Richman, husband of Post Mistress Pearl Richman, descended the post office steps with a crisp dollar bill in his hand (a significant amount then) and pinned it on the statue. This gesture by a non-Catholic was an expression of the regard he had for the faith of his foreign born Catholic neighbors. (Quite a few non-Catholic donors are listed on the Founder's Roll that has hung on the rear wall of the church for the past 87 years.)
After Mr. Richman's gracious gesture, the parade turned left and proceded onto Delsea Drive as far south as the Simms residence or the Bova farm or the Cesare farm (traffic was no problem then) before returning.
As the paraders approached the church grounds, they were greeted by the enticing aroma of zeppole (cruller-like fried dough) and other delicacies being readied for the afternoon and evening festivities.
Volunteer barkers urged people to "step right up" and test their strength and skill at knocking over bogus milk bottles with a baseball. The white bottles, made of wood with metal interiors to impart stability, were arranged in a pyramid 30 feet behind a counter. "Three balls for a nickel," the barker cried, "and one of these beautiful prizes is yours!" (The prizes were mainly stuffed animals.)
Young Raynard Infante from New York City, a relative of several area families, impressed local people with his Neapolitan love songs, which he sang from the bandstand that once occupied the area where St. Mary's outdoor shrine now stands. Another favorite amateur singer was Mr. Giuseppe Alvino, one of the church's founders, who rendered "O Sole Mio" with a fervor old-timers still talk about.
After a respite from the mid-day parade, members of the Red, White, and Blue Band took their places on the bandstand and entertained the crowd during the afternoon and evening. The music consisted of popular melodies, including ragtime and patriotic songs, mostly Sousa marches. The band's electrifying "Stars and Stripes Forever" preluded the festival's finale: fireworks.
As band members put their instruments away, firework technicians sent up aerial bombs that exploded high above in a cascade of color. This lured the crowd to the southern edge of the church grounds, where the rectory now stands. From that point, one could see technicians igniting the fireworks mounted on wooden structures on the knoll where the Malaga firehouse is today. Ground-level fireworks, including spinning wheels and "Niagra Falls," alternated with aerial displays depicting patriotic themes such as the Statue of Liberty, the Mayflower, and the American flag.
The fireworks (and the two-day festival) ended at about eleven o'clock Sunday night with detonation of an ear-splitting battery of explosives buried two feet below the ground--enough to destroy a small army. With the acrid smell of explosives still hanging over the church grounds, those who came in their primitive farm trucks and tin lizzies honked their horns in appreciation while others tramped home humming the songs the Red, White and Blue Band had played.
by William Sansalone, historian and
"native of St. Mary's now residing in the Washington, D.C. area"
* By clicking on the link above, you will be taken to our history page, which is identical to this one with the exception of having pictures as well.
Most of St. Mary's founders were immigrants from Europe, and virtually all of their native villages had a patron saint. On that saint's feast day, the pastor celebrated a High Mass, and his parishioners organized a parade to honor "their" saint. Afterward, a public gathering took place featuring music, games, food, and fireworks.
Because St. Mary's of Malaga was named for the Blessed Mother, the Feast of the Assumption became--and has been--the parish's main celebratory event since the church's beginning in 1922. Back then, Mr. Giovanni Di Matteo, one of the parish's founders, was the main organizer of this mid-August feast. These celebrations replicated, in Malaga, the fondly remembered festivals of the Old World.
Parishioners blessed with long years and clear memories can still recall the sight of the statue of the Blessed Mother--festooned with ribbons on which worshipers had pinned dollar bills--being hoisted onto the shoulders of young men for the parade after the High Mass on Sunday morning. They can recall the sound of the Red, White, and Blue Band as it marched behind the statue westward on Dutch Mill Road almost as far as Malaga Lake.
As the young men carrying the statue of the Blessed Mother approached the Malaga Post Offiuce--then situated on the northwest corner of what is now Old Dutch Mill Road and Old Delsea Drive--Mr. Corval Richman, husband of Post Mistress Pearl Richman, descended the post office steps with a crisp dollar bill in his hand (a significant amount then) and pinned it on the statue. This gesture by a non-Catholic was an expression of the regard he had for the faith of his foreign born Catholic neighbors. (Quite a few non-Catholic donors are listed on the Founder's Roll that has hung on the rear wall of the church for the past 87 years.)
After Mr. Richman's gracious gesture, the parade turned left and proceded onto Delsea Drive as far south as the Simms residence or the Bova farm or the Cesare farm (traffic was no problem then) before returning. As the paraders approached the church grounds, they were greeted by the enticing aroma of zeppole (cruller-like fried dough) and other delicacies being readied for the afternoon and evening festivities.
Volunteer barkers urged people to "step right up" and test their strength and skill at knocking over bogus milk bottles with a baseball. The white bottles, made of wood with metal interiors to impart stability, were arranged in a pyramid 30 feet behind a counter. "Three balls for a nickel," the barker cried, "and one of these beautiful prizes is yours!" (The prizes were mainly stuffed animals.)
Young Raynard Infante from New York City, a relative of several area families, impressed local people with his Neapolitan love songs, which he sang from the bandstand that once occupied the area where St. Mary's outdoor shrine now stands. Another favorite amateur singer was Mr. Giuseppe Alvino, one of the church's founders, who rendered "O Sole Mio" with a fervor old-timers still talk about.
After a respite from the mid-day parade, members of the Red, White, and Blue Band took their places on the bandstand and entertained the crowd during the afternoon and evening. The music consisted of popular melodies, including ragtime and patriotic songs, mostly Sousa marches. The band's electrifying "Stars and Stripes Forever" preluded the festival's finale: fireworks.
As band members put their instruments away, firework technicians sent up aerial bombs that exploded high above in a cascade of color. This lured the crowd to the southern edge of the church grounds, where the rectory now stands. From that point, one could see technicians igniting the fireworks mounted on wooden structures on the knoll where the Malaga firehouse is today. Ground-level fireworks, including spinning wheels and "Niagra Falls," alternated with aerial displays depicting patriotic themes such as the Statue of Liberty, the Mayflower, and the American flag.
The fireworks (and the two-day festival) ended at about eleven o'clock Sunday night with detonation of an ear-splitting battery of explosives buried two feet below the ground--enough to destroy a small army. With the acrid smell of explosives still hanging over the church grounds, those who came in their primitive farm trucks and tin lizzies honked their horns in appreciation while others tramped home humming the songs the Red, White and Blue Band had played.
I am fortunate to have a Eucharistic Adoration slot once a week. This gives me a little time for spiritual reading, among other things. I happen to love the many books written by Joan Carroll Cruz, such as The Incorruptibles, Secular Saints, and the one I had with me, which is called Miraculous Images of Our Lady. I was reading about Our Lady of Siluva (see also this link).
Our Lady of Siluva
In the early through mid-1500s,
Lutherans and Calvinists were able to win over converts in Lithuania, but only among the nobles and ruling class. The peasantry (the vast majority of the people) remained staunchly Catholic, but were persecuted. Church properties were confiscated and turned over to Protestants. In 1570 the church in Siluva was similarly threatened and in his wisdom, the pastor, Rev. John Halubka, collected some of the church's treasured articles including a few vestments, a favorite image of the Madonna and Child that hung above the main altar, and the church's records. Placing them in a metal-covered oak chest, he buried it a short distance from the church near a large rock. This was providential, since the church was soon seized by Protestants.Hearing about the vision, people flocked to the rock. The Calvinist teacher continued to insult and riducule the people for paying any creedance to the children. But the Lady and Child appeared again. Fiera, the Calvinist, asked Her, "Why are you weeping?"
Finally, in 1588, a new law was passed which gave Catholics the right to repossess church properties unjustly taken from them, but the documents clearly proving previous ownership were required. For the church at Siluva, documents could not be found to prove that Peter Giedgaudas had given the land to the Church in 1457.
...in the summer of 1608...children shepherding their flocks, saw a beautiful lady standing on a large rock. Holding a child in her arms, the lady wept bitterly. Startled by the vision, one of the children ran to a Calvinist teacher, Mikola Fiera, who promptly claimed it to be an apparition of the devil who was trying to draw people away from Calvinism.
The Calvinists tried to dismiss and argue against the apparation, but the people knew that they saw Our Lady and the Holy Infant Jesus. Shortly thereafter, Mikola Fiera left Siluva. The bishop had the matter fully investigated. A blind man, having heard about the vision,
Sadly the vision answered, "Formerly in this place my son was adored and honored, but now all that the people do is seed and cultivate the land." Saying this, the lady and child disappeared.
remembered the metal-covered oak chest that the pastor had buried years before....when...taken to the rock, his sight was immediately restored. He was then able to indicate the exact location of the chest.
Inside they found all the contents, including a miraculously undamaged picture of the Virgin and Child. Now having the papers in their possession, the Catholics were able to get their church back, although it took years of court negotiations with the Calvinists. Because of the sheer number of people attending the church, it had to be expanded and expanded again in 1786 (picture left). By order of the bishop, in 1663 a chapel was built in the exact location of the rock, but again the sheer number of people required its expansion in 1818 and then in 1924. (The apparition was officially approved by Pope Pius VI.) The miraculous image has been credited with many countless healings.We may even visit a shrine to Our Lady of Siluva in Washington DC at the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception, where beautiful mosaics depict the story.
Washington, DC thanks to rhilton4u (find photostream here).
Our Lady's Desire
In the case of Our Lady of Siluva, She wanted Her Son to be worshiped, the church returned to Catholic hands. In the history of our Catholic faith, there are many such stories that have gone like this. I'm sure you might know of some others. What does Our Lady always do, without exception? She points to Her Son. She wants nothing more than for Her children to worship Her Son, Jesus. So when She miraculously appears, what does She so often request? She requests that a shrine or church be erected in a certain spot.
In the history of our Church, can you think of one single time that Our Lady has requested that a church faithfully dedicated to the worship of Her Son be closed? When has she said, "Knock it down! Cose it up! Replace it with a Wawa!" No, never. Not once. She has appeared miraculously in the obscurest of locations, in places where the church had long ago fallen into ruin. But no mere falling mass attendance deters Our Lady. The church can be laying in pieces on the ground and She requests it be raised up again and the worship of Her Son continue. And it does. Why? It is Our Lord's holy will, and Our Lady's desire. Of that we can be completely confident. Truly Our Lady weeps at such travesties as churches falling into disuse, disrepair, or closure.
At St. Mary's we know that Our Lady is with us. She is our much loved patroness, as She is the patroness of every Catholic. She is our Single Greatest Advocate in Heaven, our Queen, Mother of every saint, and our Mother. Most of all, She is Mother of the Church, Mater Ecclesiae, and she intercedes for the Pilgrim Church on Earth. This is why at St. Mary's over the past year She has granted us the grace of her miraculous image changing color before our eyes. In this small way, She has reassured us of Her loving presence and protection. "Our Lady of Malaga," Mater Ecclesiae, ora pro nobis!
I recently purchased a children's book called The Legend of the Cape May Diamond by Trinka Hakes Noble, illustrated by E.B. Lewis. I highly recommend it not only for its wonderful storytelling, beautiful pictures, and local history value, but also because it's sort of a metaphorical tale.
As long as I can remember we collected Cape May diamonds, and we brought them home and tumbled them, made them into jewelry, collected them, etc. My dad even had one made into an engagement ring for his wife. But I had no idea of how they came to be or of their historical importance.
In this story, the Delaware River "could not tell where it was going"
"high up in the old Appalachian Mountains" thousands of years ago. So the river said, "I will send my best daughters downstream to see where my journey leads...someday they will return to tell me what they have seen."The story continues by telling the story of these "dutiful daughters of the Delaware." Though their journey was long and rough, and they were "scoured and burnished and polished by the rough river beds," though they traveled unseen along the bottom of the river, it was because of this experience that "the little stones [turned] into sparkling eyes, bright and clear, so they could see everything."
And it was because of this that the stones were held in high esteem by the Lenape people. The stone's ability to be seen through meant it "would have a higher purpose" and never be used as wampum (currency).
"And so the Lenape people made this sacred stone the symbol of loyalty and lasting friendship, because a true friend is a trusted friend with nothing to hide, just like this rare translucent stone."
Interestingly, in 1735 a large group of Lenape, the Kechemeche tribe, "decided to move further inland, away from the European settlers, but their chief, King Nummy, stayed behind. Before they left, the Kechemeche tribe presented King Nummy with a large flawless stone to pledge their enduring loyalty and friendship to him."
I'm not sure what it is about this story I find so touching. In part I think it's just deeply personal for me, for some reason. But I also think that in the story the Cape May diamond represents the human heart, and the Delaware River represents God. Our hearts should be transparent, just as our lives should be. Really we should have nothing to hide. Like these "little sparkling daughters of the Delaware" which "glisten like tears in the shallow waves because they never got back to tell the river of [their] beautiful journeys," we too are shaped by God in our lives. Sometimes the water becomes "murky, harsh, and salty." Sometimes we, too, are pushed and pulled by powerful tides, feeling as if we may be "swept out to sea, never to be seen again." But we never struggle in vain. We must trust God in His wisdom.
"Although he should kill me, I will trust in him..." Job 13:15*
All along their journey, the little stones observed many wonderful things about life in and along the river, and in their obedience remembered them saying, "This will please the river." In the end, if we keep the Faith, we will become things of great value, "precious little stones."
* Poor old Job was a "type" or prefiguration of Christ, an innocent man who is afflicted, but also a type of "sinful man" who struggles with God. In his tremendous suffering, he even wondered "why did I not die in the womb" (Job 3:11). So often is God's will mysterious. We do not understand why we suffer in this life. Tonight I heard Fr. Benedict Groeschel say that he thought it very likely that the Blessed Mother in her great anguish prayed that her Son would not be crucified, but ultimately He was, since it was, of course, God's will. Though He was and is the Savior of the world and His suffering had great purpose, our own suffering also has purpose, if only to help us rely on Jesus. But we must not become resigned, we must persevere. With the gift of fortitude, we become shaped by God in His infinite mercy.
I have been wanting to publish this prayer on Save St. Mary's for a year now but didn't know where to find it. I finally learned today that it is in a prayer book that has been sitting on my shelf at home the whole time. The prayer book is not one that I personally have used all that often thus far. It was given to me by a very kind man and Knight of Columbus, a member of the Promoters of the Blessed Sacrament, about a year ago. It is the popular "Pieta" prayerbook published by the "MLOR" (Miraculous Lady of Roses) group. You can obtain this prayerbook at your local Catholic bookstore (locally you can get it at The Littlest Angel on Landis Avenue across from Sacred Heart Church in Vineland) or by calling MLOR at 269-731-4490.I am told that this is a very powerful prayer. In the book it says, "Say for nine consecutive mornings for anything you may desire. It has seldom been known to fail." So it may also be used as a novena. Following the prayer it gives a brief history:
This prayer was found in the fiftieth year of Our Lord Jesus Christ. In the 1500s it was sent by the pope to Emperor Charles when he was going into battle. Whoever reads this prayer or hears it or carries it will never die a sudden death, nor be drowned, nor will poison take effect on them. They will not fall into the hands of the enemy nor be burned in any fire, nor will they be defeated in battle. Make this prayer known everywhere. -Imprimatur Most Rev. Geourge W. Ahr, Bishop of TrentonWow, those are some very interesting promises. Considering the "poisons" with which the Catholic Christian faithful are now being fed and the battle we face, I think this is a prayer of which we should avail ourselves!

Coincidentally we are currently praying a novena to St. Joseph in our family--not this particular one, but now that I have it, we will pray this one. The reason I wanted to post this prayer is because it is very popular at St. Mary's Malaga. By "popular" I don't mean "trendy" or "superficial." I mean that there is a deeply personal, widespread devotion to St. Josph at St. Mary's, the likes of which I have not seen before. This prayer is prayed publicly after Mass, as part of Rosary prayers, after the Divine Mercy Chaplet, at special events and feasts, etc. We implore St. Joseph's powerful intercession as the Spouse of the Blessed Virgin Mary and Foster Father of Jesus, as well as protector of the Universal Church to protect our own little corner of the Universal Church, St. Mary's. In this way, St. Joseph is so very dear to our hearts.
O St. Joseph whose protection is so great, so strong, so prompt before the Throne of God, I place in you all my interests and desires. O St. Joseph do assist me by your powerful intercession and obtain for me from your Divine Son all spiritual blessings through Jesus Christ, Our Lord; so that having engaged here below your Heavenly power I may offer my Thanksgiving and Homage to the most Loving of Fathers. O St. Joseph, I never weary contemplating you and Jesus asleep in your arms. I dare not approach while He reposes near your heart. Press him in my name and kiss his fine Head for me, and ask Him to return the Kiss when I draw my dying breath. St. Joseph, Patron of departing souls, pray for us. Amen.St. Joseph, ora pro nobis!
Malaga. "In Memory Of"
The late John Updike wrote this:
There was a time when I wondered why more people did not go to church. Taken purely as a human recreation, what could be more delightful, more unexpected, than to enter a venerable and lavishly scaled building kept warm and clean for use one or two hours a week. And to sit and stand in unison and sing and recite creeds and petitions that are like paths warn smooth in the raw terrain of our hearts. To listen or not listen as a poorly paid but resplendently robed man strives to console us with scraps of ancient epistles and halting accounts hopelessly compromised by words of those intimations of divine joy that are like pain in that the instant they're gone the mind cannot remember or believe them. To witness the windows donated by departed patrons and the altar flowers arranged by withdrawn hands, and the whole considered spectacle lustrous beneath its patina of inheritance. To pay for all this no more than we are moved to give, surely in all democracy there is nothing like it. Indeed it's the most available democratic experience. We vote less than once a year. Only in church and at the polls are we actually given our supposed value, our arithmetic of equality, one equals one.
I thought there was something beautiful about this description of what a church experience meant to one important American writer and I wanted to share it with you. (Of course, St. Mary's is open every day of the week...)
This weekend we have many opportunities to attend Mass. Monday is the Feast of the Immaculate Conception, therefore we will have Mass on Sunday night. On Monday, our Masses will be at 8:00 AM and 7:00 PM. We will have Latin Mass on Sunday night.
This all important feast recognizes the solemn Truth that Our Blessed Mother was conceived without sin. This special privilege also blesses everyone in a prominent way because as a member of the human race whatever blessing comes to Our Blessed Mother flows into our souls. This is a powerful Truth that encourages, or rather demands, that we express our gratitude to Almighty God by praying always to the Immaculate Virgin and Mother to avoid personal sin at all cost. This devotion was emphasized by the apparition of Our Blessed Mother to St. Catherine Labouré in 1831 at France. Blessed Virgin Mary asked that a medal be forged to commemorate this important event in the history of mankind. The apparition of Our Blessed Mother at Lourdes to St. Bernadette Soubirous confirmed the need for devotion to this honor bestowed on the Blessed Virgin and thus to all of us.
When we live in the truth, we live in God, and we discover His Holy Will. That Will unquestionably calls us, implores us, directs us to adore the Almighty through our relationship with the Holy Mother of God.
When we see a diocese that only gives lip service to God's Mother and does not propagate devotion to the Patroness of the Diocese of Camden and the United States of America, we know that God is not pleased with that diocese. Therefore, St. Mary's Shrine Parish is particularly blessed by the constant devotion to Our Blessed Mother. Remember we have had for many years now the Perpetual Novena to Our Lady of the Miraculous Medal on Wednesday nights. We also distribute the medal of the Immaculate Mother all the time and attach it to our scapular. Come, join us in the crusade to bring the United States to its knees in giving honor and glory to God by our devotion to Our Blessed Mother. What is engraved on the Miraculous Medal, the medal that Blessed Teresa of Calcutta gave to everyone who came to her for help, "O Mary conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee."
Praised by Jesus Christ
Now and Forever
Father Jerome Charles Romanowski, Pastor
This was prayer was in the Sept. 21st bulletin. I just love St. John Vianney, and what a wonderful picture I was able to find. His body is incorrupt, a special miracle granted by God to certain saints for our benefit. Please pray for all the priests in the Diocese. They are greatly in need of our prayers always, but especially at this time of TRIAL.
The Feast of the Assumption
The Blessed Mother of God, our patroness, has blessed us with immense gifts of grace. We are certain despite all the naysayers that we will REMAIN OPEN BECAUSE God wills it. I am not to crazy. I can catch a baseball, read a story, tell a joke and pass on the Good News of the Gospel, which is Our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. The Almighty appointed a woman, a virgin, to give birth to His Divine son and therefore she was granted the sublime privilege of being assumed into Heaven Body and soul. How do we know this? The Church so proclaims this Truth. So does the Baltimore Catechism which I began to memorize as a child. How wonderful were those classes at St. Laurentius. They lasted longer than the schedule read because the sisters (click here too) knew what was and is Good. That's all we had to know really. That was the reason for being born.
And Jesus coming, spoke to them, saying: All power is given to Me in Heaven and on earth. Going therefore, teach ye all nations: Baptizing them in the Name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Ghost. Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you. And behold I am with you all days, even to the consummation of the world. St. Matthew 28: 18-20
Praised be Jesus Christ,
Now and Forever!
Fr. Jerome Charles Romanowski, Pastor
Three years later [after sex abuse scandal fallout], Bishop Cullen is closing almost a third of the parishes of the Allentown Diocese, including nearly all of the ethnic parishes. This will destroy the communities centered on the ethnic parishes. Again, Bishop Cullen places the interests of the hierarchy, in this case financial, over the good of the people. In response, the Coalition of Churches was founded by members of closed parishes to appeal the closings to the Vatican.
In a videocast on the Allentown Diocese Web site, Bishop Cullen calls on the faithful to ''bear the cross'' of the closings. He says that the closings are the necessary result of an aging clergy and a lack of vocations to replenish the ranks. He says that missionary priests from abroad should not and cannot be brought to bolster the ranks of priests. The Father, Bishop Cullen tells us, will provide. Click here to read entire piece.
We in the Camden Diocese are far from alone in our struggles. Remember, con man Follieri used the sex abuse scandal and resulting settlements as an opportunity to attempt to butter up various bishops and buy up church properties dirt cheap. So if you thought the sex abuse scandal was over, think again. We, the Catholics in the pews throughout America, are now paying the price for the sins of the abusive priests and the bishops who cared so little for the smallest lambs in the fold that they moved abusive priests around for decades, giving them opportunity after opportunity to abuse more children. As if this wasn't bad enough, now our parishes are being stolen from us and from our ancestors who sacrificed for and built them, and we're not even being told about the true motivations. Perhaps worst of all, we are patronizingly told that we have to "bear the cross" of the loss of our churches and there has been no noticeable repentance for the inaction and irresponsibility that has been shown on the part of too many of our church leaders. Yes we must forgive even the worst of offenses because Christ has called us to, but this does not mean the offenses are acceptable. The word "unjust" does not even begin to scratch the surface. What is occurring and has occurred in many diocese in the United States is simply unconscionable.
The article we link to happens to be about the Allentown, PA Diocese, but they are only one of many diocese facing the same problem. By the way, this article was also forwarded to me by an empathetic Texan.
Archdiocese of Philadelphia Diocese of Camden
We, the faithful of the Roman Catholic We, the Catholic Church of South
Church in Philadelphia Jersey
in communion with our Holy Father, envision growing ever more into
shepherd of the universal Church, and dynamic community of faith,
our Archbishop, shepherd of the Church hope, and love wherein we reveal
in Philadelphia, proclaim to everyone the mind and heart of Jesus through
the Good News that Jesus Christ is our actions and worship.
the Light of the world, who offers to all
who follow Him the light of life.
Baptized into Christ Jesus and confirmed Empowered by baptism, inspired
by the gift of the Holy Spirit, we desire by the Holy Spirit, and formed by
to share this Light with all by proclaiming the Word of God and the sacraments,
the Gospel of forgiveness and reconciliation especially the Eucharist, we will--
to every person. with Jesus living in us--reach out
with love:
We are one in our Church's teachings
and in the variety of gifts, services, and
ministries that we employ to help build
up the Kingdom of God. We therefore
commit ourselves to:
-worship God in spirit and truth through -To proclaim and teach the truths
"prayer without ceasing," and particularly that save,
through the celebration of the Eucharist
and the other sacraments of the Church;
-create and nourish Christian community -To welcome back those who have
in the domestic church of the family, in left our family of faith,
the life of every parish, and in society
as a whole
-proclaim in word and deed the Good News -To forgive and seek forgiveness,
of Jesus Christ to all persons, inviting each
of our sisters and brothers in the human
community to share our faith and our mission;
-teach the saving message of Christ so that -To care for our sisters and brothers
all believers may come to deeper in need,
understanding, conversion and personal
witness to Christ;
-serve all our sisters and brothers, -To work for peace within our families
particularly the poor and needy, by and communities,
generous acts of charity and by working
together with all people of good will for -To promote respect and justice
justice and peace. for all people,
-To strengthen unity
within our diversity,
We pray to the Father, Son, and Holy And to celebrate the sanctifying
Spirit, through the intercession of Mary, love of God that heals and trans-
the Immaculate Conception, to whose forms the world.
care the Archdiocese is consecrated,
and through Saints Peter and Paul, the -Most Reverend Joseph A. Galante,
Archdiocesan patron. May the Lord of D.D., J.C.D., Bishop of Camden
Light guide us in our earthly journey
and to our heavenly home.
True Motivation of the Merger Process:
It's Financial
by An Anonymous Contributor
(hey, if the Catholic Star Herald can have anonymous writers, so
can we!)
The Catholic Star Herald recently published the following Q&A on
its webpage further explaining the merger process as Galante
would have it happen.
Read it here.
What the answer fails to include, however, is that the Bishop
is ordering these "Priest Conveners," as their very first
duty upon appointment, to take an ENTIRE INVENTORY OF THE
PARISH. He's apparently concerned with preventing theft.
(Seriously, this is the exact reason he provides for ordering
these inventories!) This is ironic since he keeps saying the
mergers are about "vibrancy," but his very first directive
with respect to the mergers is clearly MATERIAL in nature.
As if we're too simple to see past his patronizing one-
dimensional answers, Galante has brushed aside our concerns by
explaining that parish assets don't belong to the diocese. Well
if it's not his plan to have his new parish priests sell all
the assets and funnel the $$$ back to the diocese to create the
ultimate legacy (of his ego), then why is he so concerned with
trying to protect his (OUR!) possessions from theft by the
faithful? Which concern is, in itself, so telling about his
notions of spirituality!
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6/22 Editorial Note:
Although it may be true that Canon law makes necessary the
inventory of all material goods of a parish, the point of the
above writer is well-taken. The material aspect of this
"reconfiguration" is over-emphasized.
On multiple occasions the bishop has spoken about the assets
of particular parishes and emphasized his role as being over
the entire diocese. A parish with significant funds and/or
property will eventually be "merged" with another parish that
does not. After that time, the first parish will cease to exist
as an entity, but because it was "merged" rather than suppressed,
the money is still usable.
In other words, it is clear that assets of parishes not in
arrears will be used (at least in part) to "bail out" parishes
that are. Take for example the case of Our Lady Queen of Peace
in Pitman and Our Lady of Lourdes. Bishop Galante wishes to
merge these two churches. The former parish has significant
assets, the latter is in debt. While the bishop may be
concerned about theft from the diocese on some level, what's
really going on is pure and simple theft from parishes by the
diocese. The bishop wishes to legitimately seize
assets from parishes for the benefit of the diocese. If the
church doesn't have cash assets, they may be strategically
located on potentially valuable real estate. I can think of
many such parishes off the top of my head. In the end, who knows
what will really happen to these funds.
Further we see multiple rationales given for the
"reconfiguration"--an eventual priest shortage,
demographic shifts [evidence please ???], lack of funds, and a
need for slick, paid "ministries," the need to strengthen or
"revitalize" the diocese, whatever happens to be the
"rationale du jour. Financial difficulties are often on
the list. The bishop and Msgr. McGrath still are able to dig deep
and find--without apparent problem--five MILLION dollars to buy
land for a new high school that will cost tens of millions of
dollars.
Meanwhile, he shutters our beloved churches and schools
and ups the "Appeal" goals for most parishes to astronomical levels.
He makes demeaning comments in a television interview quipping
that parents want a "quality" education for their children,
clearly implying that the schools he chose to close did not
provide "quality" educations. Those poor teachers must feel
horrible to receive such a put-down for their years of service.
But to Galante, the more money you can throw at a school or parish,
the better the "quality."
The point? Money's a huge motivator. Unfortunately that old
saying my dad used to quote all the time still holds true:
"Power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely." It's
such a shame that this is happening in the Church Christ founded.
No, in fact, it's embarrasing.
Please know that we are praying for you. Each night when we say the rosary with our sons, 2 and 4, I always make sure to pray for the priests of the diocese, for St. Mary's, and especially for Fathers Pasley (my own pastor) and Romanowski. Throughout the day, especially lately, I utter little ejaculations to God in remembrance of our diocese's priests.
Tonight I received an anonymous email from a priest of our diocese which I am certain is legitimate. Because I do not know who this priest is and in response to his concerns, I would like to take a moment right now to let you know that we thank you for your ministry to the faithful of this diocese. For the sake of God's holy will and the sake of the diocese, please remain strong. Please pray for the intercession of Saints John Vianney, patron saint of parish priests, and St. Catherine of Siena, who was brave, faithful, and holy enough to face a pope because she was on a mission from God Himself. It is my belief that if the priests of the diocese realize they are not alone in their objections but ban together, as the lay faithful are doing, the scheme of the bishop will consequently be very difficult to carry out. Let us overcome our fear and do the Lord's will.
And remember:
Canon Law expressly states the Pastor of the Parish MUST Agree to the Closing of a Doctrinally Established Catholic Church (CF. 532).
Canon Law states that you are not obligated to resign from your parish!!!
Pray about it, and then stay faithful to God. Stand your ground and know that we are with you all the way.
God bless you, holy priests.
Part 1: The Origins of St. Mary's
Part 2: 1922-1939: A Mission Church of Sacred Heart Parish
Part 3: 1939-1961: A Mission Church of St. Rose of Lima Parish
Part 4: Since 1961: An Independent Parish
Epilogue: Pastor's Vision for the Future
Acknowledgments: About this history
In 1922 the Third Sunday of Advent fell on December 17, the day St. Mary's Church was dedicated. Hundreds flocked to the new church on Dutch Mill Road to hear the Mass's theme, "The Lord is near, let us be joyful." The people of Malaga were especially joyful that wintry Sunday as they witnessed the spiritual beginning of their own church.
The Solemn high Mass was celebrated with the Most Reverend Thomas Walsh, bishop of Trenton, presiding. He voiced high praise for Monsignor James Bulfin, pastor of Sacred Heart Church (seven miles away in Vineland), who directed the building of the church, and for the people of Malaga whose monetary sacrifices made it possible.
St. Mary's Early Pastors
The dedication of St. Mary's marked its beginning as a mission church under Sacred Heart. Monsignor Bulfin served as pastor of St. Mary's even though he resided in Vineland. (St. Mary's did not have its own pastor and rectory until four decades later.) Monsignor Bulfin had a passionate devotion to Catholic education. "Without the religious training of our youth," he stated on numerous occasions, "our churches would not be needed."
In 1933 illness compelled Monsignor Bulfin to forgo pastoral duties, and Father Francis Jackson inherited his superior's responsibilities. The untimely death of Father Jackson only four years later, which many attributed to the stress of Sacred Heart's Depression-era fiscal problems, was deeply felt by St. Mary's parishioners. Father William Hickey, later Monsignor Hickey, replaced Father Jackson and served as pastor of St. Mary's during its final two years as a mission church under Sacred Heart, from 1937 to 1939.
Sisters of St. Joseph
During St. Mary's early years, the Sisters of St. Joseph traveled from their convent in Vineland to Malaga to prepare the children for first Holy Communion. Mother Albertine, Sister Mary Edmond, Sister Teresa Carmel, Sister Grace Stanislaus, and Sister Mary Barnabas, like those who followed them, were devoted to teaching the Catholic faith and responsible citizenship during those Sunday afternoon sessions.
Each spring, twelve to fifteen children received the Sacrament. This was a proud moment for their parents, who were grateful to the sisters for helping them perpetuate their faith and thus fulfill the main reason for building St. Mary's. They were grateful, also, to the sisters for reinforcing their children's language skills, enabling them to participate more fully in the mainstream of American society.
Feast of the Assumption
Because St. Mary's was named for the Mother of Jesus, the Feast of the Assumption became the parish's principal celebration. The mid-August festivities resembled those of a typical Italian village; that is, a High Mass, followed by a parade to honor the community's patron saint and a public gathering featuring food, music, games and fireworks.
Parishioners blessed with long years and clear memories can still remember the festivals of the 1920s and '30s when the Associazione della Assunta, which was organized principally by Mr. Giovanni (John) DiMatteo, managed the annual event in the absence of an on-site pastor. They can still recall the sight of the statue of La Madonna (Figure 2), festooned with ribbons on which worshipers had pinned dollar bills, being hoisted to the shoulders of young men for the parade down Delsea Drive. (Traffic was no problem then.) They can recall the sound of the Red, White, and Blue Band as it marched behind La Madonna. They can recall the enticing aroma of zeppole (cruller-like fried dough) and other delicacies being readied on the church grounds for the return of hungry paraders.
Volunteer barkers urged people to "step right up" and test their strength and skill at knocking over bogus milk bottles with a baseball. (The white bottles, made of wood with metal interiors to impart stability, were arranged in a pyramid thirty feet behind a counter.) "Three balls for a nickel," the barker cried, "and one of these beautiful prizes (mainly stuffed animals) is yours!!"
Young Raynard Infante from New York City, a relative of several families in the area, impressed the local population with his Neapolitan love songs, which he sang from the gandstand in the area where St. Mary's outdoor shrines now stand. Another favorite amateur singer was Mr. Giuseppe (Joseph) Alvino, one of the church's founders, who rendered "Oh Sole Mio" with a fervor that old-timers still talk about. (Both Raynard Infante and Mr. Avino are shown in Figure 3.)
After a respite from the mid-day parade, members of the Red, White, and Blue Band took their places on the bandstand and entertained the crowd during the afternoon and evening. The music consisted of Italian melodies and patriotic songs, mostly Sousa marches. The band's electrifying "Stars and Stripes Forever" presaged the festival's finale: the fireworks.
As band members put their instruments away, firework technicians sent up aerial bombs that exploded in a cascade of color. This lured the crowd to the southern edge of the church grounds (where the rectory now stands). From that point, people could see the lighting of fireworks mounted on wooden structures on the knoll where the firehouse is now located. Fireworks at ground level, including spinning wheels and Niagara Falls, alternated with aerial displays depicting patriotic themes, such as the Statue of Liberty, the Mayflower, and the American flag (then forty-eight stars).
The fireworks (and the two-day festival) ended at about eleven o'clock with the detonation of an ear-splitting battery of explosives buried two feet below the ground--enough to destroy a small army. With the acrid smell of fireworks still hanging over the church grounds, those who came in cars and trucks sounded their horns in appreciation while others tramped home humming the songs that the Red, White, and Blue Band had played.
Bountiful Times End.
Suddenly, in 1929, St. Mary's parishioners, like all Americans, were hit with the devastating effects of the Great Depression. Cash incomes dropped as the price of produce plunged to just a few pennies more than the cost of the container in which it was shipped to market. But the Depression did not stop these energetic settlers from garnering food, fuel, and shelter for their children and their farm animals from southern New Jersey's rich, sandy loam; its red-cedar swamps; and its unspoiled, game-filled woodlands.
In addition to being innately resourceful, these sturdy men and women were capable of buoying each others' spirits during grim times. No one was more noted for this than the grandfatherly man who devoted the last eighteen years of his life to St. Mary's and the Malaga community.
St. Mary's First Custodian
Unlike most of St. Mary's early parishioners who were young, newly married immigrants, Signor Giuseppe DiMatteo (Figure 4) was an Italian widower who was seventy-three years old when the church was built in 1922. Today, some older residents can still remember Giuseppe, affectionately called "Zio Pepe" by all the children in the community, even those who were English-speaking. Giuseppe had immigrated from Campania in 1914, the year his son, Mr. Giovanni (John) DiMatteo (1879-1947), and daughter-in-law, Mrs. Antoinette Cairone DiMatteo (1887-1950), purchased the family farm on what is now West Boulevard.
Biuseppe spent his years in American on the farm, helping to rear his eleven grandchildren and working in the family vineyard. Using his pruning shears, sickle, and zappa (an Old World cultivating hoe), he nurtured the vines so they formed multitudinous, small green grapes in the spring.
As the season progressed, Giuseppe continued to coax the vines. The little grapes grew in the summer sun and matured into plump, purple fruit during the cooler, shorter days of September and October. The family made grape jelly with part of the crop, and Giuseppe would make wine with the rest.
A medium-built, muscular man, whose body belied his age, Giuseppe did more than till the vineyard; he also served as custodian of St. Mary's from its beginning until its death in 1940. The church grounds were not landscaped at the time, so Giuseppe used his sickle and heavy hoe to tame the growth outside during spring, summer, and fall. In addition, he kept the inside of the church in order.
In winter, the church was unheated during the week. Giuseppe would arrive early on Sunday to start a fire in the wood-burning furnace downstairs so that the church would be warm when the priest and worshipers showed up for the nine o'clock mass.
Giuseppe carried out most of his duties behind the scenes, except for the ringing of the bell, which he did with zeal exactly thirty minutes before Mass. Twenty minutes later, with early arrivals already in the pews, he would ring it again. During that era, St. Mary's bell was connected to a heavy rope that came down from the steeple into the church through a hole in the ceiling. (The hole in the ceiling above the choir loft is still visible.)
Standing in the main aisle below, Giuseppe would grasp the rope with both hands and pull on it with the weight of his body. His initial efforts would cause the bell and its supporting mechanism to start swinging back and forth. The rafters would creak, and the bell would produce a soft ding. As momentum increased, the bell's hammer would strike its side more forcefully, and the dingdong of the bell would reverberate across the surrounding countryside.
For eighteen years Giuseppe summoned the populace of St. Mary's for spiritual renewal.













