Results matching “glass” from Save St Mary's Malaga

Fresh from the desk of our "pastor," Fr. Edward Namiotka, comes this "bright idea. Here is another example of why we continue to fight to save St. Mary's. Over the past two years and, arguably, since the 1970s, more and more strange ideas in the name of "Catholicism" have been made, and so many have been suggested in the past two years by the Diocese of Camden. But never you fear! Rest confidently that this particular innovation is the brain power of a Sacred Heart High School administrator. Is it just a way of getting you to part with your cash, or is it a new-fangled spiritual practice? You be the judge. However, we wouldn't recommend you try this at home. Let us give you some background, first.

Father says in his Jan. 3 bulletin that since the light bulbs in St. Michael's Minotola need to be replaced, members of this parish ought to sponsor a light bulb ($25 a bulb). Apparently the labor cost of changing light bulbs is into the thousands. He calls this the "Guiding Light" project. In the interest of spirituality, he says that light bulbs are just like votive candles. Ya know, candles give light and so do light bulbs. Yeah, we see the similarity. We quote:

It is not that far removed from the practice that we have of lighting candles in a church in memory of someone. And these light bulbs should radiate in the church for a significantly longer amount of time than a candle--potentially a couple of years or more. [emphasis his]
However, from our point of view, as Fr. Namiotka has previously pointed out that nothing is permanent, including our churches, and that they are nothing more than just buildings, we're not sure we understand the point in making that sort of an investment. A light bulb that lasts two years? Gee wizz. All things are changing, right? As he pointed out a few bulletins back, our churches could get bombed out tomorrow just like the ones in Europe during World War II (or, alternatively, stolen by a bishop and his conspirators). Therefore we're not sure that kind of investment is warranted. A more practical approach might be for each of us to just bring our own flashlights to mass. Heck, that might be fun, like a camp out, but we digress. Father goes on, imploring us to think:

Think about it. Every time you enter the church you can look up and think of someone who shone like a light for you. Hopefully it will help you to remember them and to pray for them. [again, emphasis his]
Ummm, I could remember my loved one or I could go blind from staring into a lightbulb. Uh-huh!

Then he goes on to say, and we could not possibly make this up, that there are "three mouths to feed in our rectory household while the weekly collection has not increased proportionately." Ain't that cute? They're like hungry little kittens who've come scratching at our back doors or something. Remember to put out a bowl of chow!

Some of us have lost our jobs, are struggling during this recession, have families to feed, and don't own Rolex watches, nor do we have our auto insurance, rent or mortgage, gas, utilities, and other life expenses paid for us by our employers. No one shops for us, cooks our meals, or cleans our houses, either. To top it all off, they're threatening to steal our churches away from us, but that's not enough. They want more, more, more. Their mouths need feeding.

The pastor's hungry? Well cry me a river. We've made you pierogies, taken you out to eat, and had you over for dinner. Not enough? We'll set an extra place for you any night of the week at our dining room table. Come on over. Open invitation. Again, we've digressed from the light bulbs. Sorry.

We're supposed to mark our envelopes "Guiding Light" and bring our contributions, along with the names of our dear departed loved ones, to the rectory. In the spirit of the "Guiding Light" project, we have furthered the innovation. A natural extension of the prayer rock, we now have the prayer light bulb, intended to remind us to pray for our loved one.

Step 1: Select a bulb.

Light bulbs

Step 2: Select a dear, departed loved one "who shone like a light for you" and create appropriate label.

Light bulbs

Step 3: Affix label to selected bulb.

Light bulbs

Step 4: TWO OPTIONS
    Option A: Place light bulb in fixture and look at it. The light bulb's shininess will remind you to pray for the dear departed loved one. But this will hurt your eyes. (Therefore not recommended.)
    Option B: The prayer rock method. Bring dedicated light bulb to bed with you. If, during your sleep, the light bulb should happen to break and the shards of glass hurt you, it will remind you to pray for your dear departed loved one. This, too, will hurt. (Therefore not recommended.)

Light bulbs

You may also place the bulb beneath your pillow [below]. (Warning: Dangerous, yet penitential!)

Light bulbs

Disclaimer: Save St. Mary's takes no responsibility for those who decided to employ the Prayer Bulb or Prayer Rock spiritual innoventions. Undertake at your own risk.

This is a continuation from Parts I & II.

An outcome of so much of the Vatican II fallout, says Davies, is that mass is no longer an experience of peaceful reverence for many Catholics, but instead "going to Mass has become a misery for them, they come away disturbed and distressed." For many it is a chore rather than a joy. Naturally many of us have witnessed this fact. Still worse, many thinking Catholics find themselves in situations in which they "quite reasonably wonder whether the sacraments they are receiving are valid." In retrospect, I wonder the same thing about some places I have visited.

Davies believes that we are living through a period in Catholic history not dissimilar to the time of St. Athanasius in which heresy--in our age, modernism--is rampant. Even the age old mass, now known as the Tridentine mass, was unjustly outlawed until our current pope, the Lord bless him, corrected and clarified this error in his Motu Proprio only a few years ago. And so we find ourselves at a crossroads in American Catholic history, a time in which tradition is roundly and summarily dismsissed, our "church buildings" not far behind.

Never before in the entire history of the Church has there been such an abrupt and violent breach with Tradition and established custom. We can say with St. Thomas: "It is absurd and a detestable shame that we should suffer those traditions to be changed which we have received from the fathers of old."
I believe that the forcible closing of our churches in favor of what can be reasonably looked upon as "the new church" both physically and spiritually may fall under the heading of "an absurd and detestable shame." The very structure of a traditional Catholic church is under attack. In a "traditional" Catholic church we all face forward, not in a circle or semi-circle so that we may stare at our "community" during "the liturgy" (even the term, "mass" is apparently, by many, considered a relic of the past). We have kneelers, holy water fonts, stations of the cross, and, typically, stained glass and other art that educates and illuminates the faithful, as well as many other things. Perhaps most importantly, the tabernacle containing Our Lord's precious body is front and center, where it should be, for the purpose of proper dignity and worship!

In the case of St. Mary's, we are also blessed with an altar rail which clearly delineates the space where the Holy Sacrifice takes place. In addition, the choir loft an organ are in the rear of church, where they belong. In a traditional Catholic church, the mass is not a show, therefore we need not see the musicians. The music is meant to elevate our souls to God, who comes to us body, blood, soul, and divinity via the priest who stands in persona christi.

To be continued in Part IV.

We thought it Our Lady of Mt CarmelSt Mary's Church, 1960s would be a good time to remind people of the History section of the Save St. Mary's website. This history was written by a historian (an actual professional historian, now retired) and long time St. Mary's parishioner who now lives outside NJ.

It is interesting to note that we now live in a day and age where bigger is considered inherently better. One of the purposes of the destruction of our parishes and merger with others is that larger churches are considered by some to be superior. Why? Not sure. Our culture favors this model for most things these days, though, from stores to houses to cars. Churches are certainly not exempt. Part of it is human ego, we suppose. We can leave that to the sociologists.

In any case, historical perspective can lend a hand here. People tend to assume that once upon a time, there was a golden age of...fill in the blank. In the case of St. Mary's, there's the functioning assumption that once upon a time, St. Mary's was much larger. Well, that just isn't the case. Not really. St. Mary's Historic pictures from the Feast of the Assumptionhas always been a tiny church and, when it became an actual parish, it became a tiny parish. I'll quote the history:

Completed in 1922, the new brick church could accommodate 150 worshipers.
If the people who built St. Mary's had needed a larger church, they would have built a larger church. And no, we cannot explain away its size by supposing there was more than one mass because there wasn't. Not until the 1950s was a second Sunday mass considered. The Saturday evening anticipated mass came even later.

Interestingly, the Bishop of Trenton (previous to the establishment of the Camden Diocese), Bishop Walsh,

voiced high praise for Monsignor James Bulfin, pastor of Sacred Heart...who directed the building of the church, and for the people of Malaga whose monetary sacrifices made it possible.
That was back at the opening mass in 1922, at which the bishop presided. Compare this to today's situation. We are now in a geographically smaller diocese with better transportation and an improved financial status. We have more parishioners today and more priests per capita, but our current bishop sees no need for St. Mary's or, for that matter, half the churches in the Diocese of Camden. Oh how far we have fallen in evangelical zeal!

St. Mary's didn't even have its own pastor or rectory until four decades later. So sharing a priest with another parish is nothing new to St. Mary's. In fact, it has been the case for about half its history, since it was a mission of Sacred Heart (Vineland) and then St. Rose of Lima (Newfield).The St. Theresa Society's 1947 Annual Communion Breakfast

As for money, St. Mary's has always "lived" very frugally. Its less than affluent members sacrificed greatly to build the church and shortly thereafter experienced the Great Depression, the stress of which may have contributed to the death of its [shared] pastor, Fr. Jackson.

By the 1940s, St. Mary's had only about 100 families (compared to today's 250), although being farming families they were likely larger then the families most have today. Once the war and rationing were over, Fr. Naab (above), the pastor of St. Rose of Lima and St. Mary's, was able to obtain a car and visited every single family of St. Mary's. How many priests would do this today, even with better cars, better roads, lower gas mileage, and in a tiny parish?

It was also under Fr. NaabStained Glass Window that our tiny parish commissioned its beautiful stained glass windows (right). Not shortsighted and despite the size of the parish, Fr. Naab knew how important a "church building," as so many refer to them today, is to a community. From the history:

Fr. Naab insisted on first-rate materials and workmanship. "The color in this glass will never fade," he said on numerous occasions.

In the 1950s a second mass was added and the church was enlarged. Yes, St. Mary's was once even smaller than it is today! In addition to enlarging the church, the organ and choir area were moved upstairs and a loft constructed. This added room for additional pews in the back.

In 1957 the land for the rectory was purchased, and finally in 1961 a third Sunday mass was added. (Saturday evening masses were unheard of previous to Vatican II.) This is also the year that St. Mary's became an independent parish (see photo top right). For almost a year, Fr. Zimmer, St. Mary's first pastor of its own, lived in the sacristy. And no, there was no bathroom in there just as there is no bathroom now. In spring 1962, the rectory was completed.

The religious education of its children was a primary and founding purpose of St. Mary's, but even in the 1980s, the all-time high of the CCD program peaked at only about 100 children. This year, even with the bishop's threat of closure hanging over our head and no nun volunteers as in the past (see photo above), we have around 60 students.

Our point? St. Mary's has never been big. Holy Name Mass & PartyIMG_5670It's always been small. We've shared priests and even had one live in the sacristy. Though our church has undergone many changes over the years, physically and otherwise, we must not fall into the trap of believing that because we are small today, we are somehow on a downward spiral. Nothing could be further from the truth.

What St. Mary's has that strengthens it is its small size! More people are always a welcome blessing, but a small parish enables us to know each other, and we like that. While some people may find larger parishes more to their liking, there ought to always be the option available to those who like a small church family. We're pretty uncomplicated at our church; we don't want anything big or fancy. We keep it simple at St. Mary's, and we think it's a blessing.

Rest in Peace, Bob Walsh

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Sadly, our friend, Bob Walsh, died Tuesday night of complications stemming from his 10-month battle with cancer.  According to his son, Liam, he died in peace and without pain.  Leah and Kevin were able to visit Bob for about 10 minutes that night and prayed the Divine Mercy chaplet with him and his family, who were at his bedside throughout the past week. 

On a personal note, we would like to say that we feel privileged to have known Bob. He was a smart man, a kind man, a family man, a Godly man. He had a wonderful sense of humor. He was interiorly a man of great strength and conviction. We ask all of you to pray for the repose of his soul and the perseverance of his family. We know that Bob will continue to pray for us and for our churches.

The viewing will be at Kelley Funeral Home in Pitman (125 Pitman Ave) from 7 - 9 pm Friday, Oct. 30th and again from 9:30 - 10:30 am Saturday, Oct. 31st.  Mass will be at Our Lady Queen of Peace in Pitman at 11 am  Saturday.  Burial will be at Manahath Cemetery in Glassboro.

Robert John Walsh, age 60 died on October 27, 2009. Born in Philadelphia, he lived in Pitman since 1980. He formerly worked for Liteway in Bristol, PA and Mobil Oil. For the past two years he worked as an IT Consultant for J and R Consulting in Williamsport, MD. Bob was a member of Our Lady Queen of Peace Church in Pitman where he was a 7th grade CCD teacher. He was also a member and past president of the Commodore John Barry Division I, Ancient Order of Hibernians.

He was the son of the late John Charles William Walsh and Dorothy Rose Keenan Walsh and predeceased by his sister Geraldine Marie Walsh. He is survived by his sons Liam Patrick Séan Walsh of New York, NY, Collin Michael Thomas Walsh of Pitman, brother John of FL, sisters Carol Marazzi of FL, Eileen Jack of Wenonah and close friends Kathryn Yurchak and Charlotte Ryan.

Bob continually strove for peace and justice and a United Ireland. 


This was originally posted January 31, 2009. We thought it was worth republishing.

Catholic theology and Church teaching are not accidental. Holy Mother Church teaches unchanging, eternal Truths. Moreover, these Truths are all connected and interconnected. Like all systems, each Truth depends upon the other; they are the structures that support the building. We do not, after all, have an atomistic system wherein one truth may stand up as a pillar without the others. Generally speaking, it is not possible, nor is it logical, to accept one teaching of the Catholic Church and dispense with the others, as if one was unrelated to the next. Once we begin to do this, the structure loses its supports and comes tumbling down.

Take, for example, our church buildings and chapels. They are designed for the worship of Christ, the King of the Universe. They are supposed to give us a glimpse of heaven. They are to surround us with examples of how we should live (depictions of the lives of Christ and the saints), who we are and were designed to be (holy sons and daughters of Our Lord), and the physical and spiritual means of getting there.

Holy Water Font at St. Mary's Malaga
Holy water (St. Mary's), a sacramental of the Church,
is one of the many physical and spiritual aids
God gives us to live holy lives and resist the devil.


St. Mary's Malaga: Candles
Votive candles (St. Mary's), another sacramental.

As Catholics, we believe that Christ is truly and physically present in the Holy Sacrifice of the Altar and that his Eucharistic Presence resides in the Tabernacle. If the King of the Universe resides in the Tabernacle, it only makes sense that that Tabernacle be located in a prominent place, front and center.

Altar, St. Mary's Malaga

Tabernacle, St. Mary's Malaga
Tabernacle of St. Mary's Malaga, shrine & parish

If the King of the Universe in the Tabernacle is located front and center in our churches, it only makes sense that we reverently face Him. If the King of the Universe is located in the Tabernacle, front and center, and we are all facing His Majesty, it only makes sense that we be able to kneel before Him in humility and out of love and devotion to Him.

Bishop Visits St. Mary's
At St. Mary's we all face the Lord together, including Fr.
Romanowski. (This picture was taken the day Bishop Galante
visited, which is why we were all wearing blue ribbons in
solidarity with Our Lady, St. Mary!)

If we truly believe that Jesus Christ, King and Redeemer of our fallen race has come to be with us sacramentally in the Holy Eucharist and that He resides in our Catholic churches, then our souls and minds ought to be elevated, our whole selves reminded of Him while we are in church, whether mass is going on or not. Throughout most of human history, people have not been literate, and even today we need reminders of what it means to live the Christian life. God allows us to use our senses to know Him. To glorify God and for the help of our souls, we are given works of art in the form of paintings, stained glass windows, statues, and other things within our churches.

St. Anthony Statue
A large, hand-carved wooden statue of St. Anthony
found in the rear of St. Mary's.

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Beautiful stained glass windows depicting
various saints are found throughout St. Mary's.
All were donated by church members and societies.

Consider this. When you have a guest coming to your house, you clean up. You make ready. You prepare. If you were to have an "important" guest come to your house, you would want it to look good. In this case we have an important guest--the most important Guest possible, our Creator--coming to be with us, so great is His love for us. We should want all around us to remind us of His loving and sacrificial Presence.

Says the Catholic Church of England and Wales:

A Church for us is more than a building - it is a Sacred Space, filled with God's presence. Everything within that space - the paintings, the statues, the stained glass - exists for a spiritual purpose.

This is to provide people with a focus for prayer and an insight into God: literally a 'glimpse of heaven'. The word 'Patrimony' describes the Church's cultural inheritance in terms of architecture, art and artefacts. All witness to our Catholic past: a history of persecution, struggle and ultimately, revival. We are just custodians, with a duty to preserve these sacred treasures for the future. Today we also create the Patrimony of tomorrow by commissioning high quality Sacred art.

But now, after roughly two thousand years of Holy Mother Church teaching us
  • about the sacredness the church building,
  • about how we must be ever vigilant of the possibility of sacrilege not only personally but also in our churches and shrines,
  • about how Our Lord would be with us even until the end of time both spiritually and in the Holy Eucharist in our churches and sacred places,
  • about Christians sacrificing all they had materially and even their own lives for the sake of their holy churches erection and continuation,
  • to fall on our knees before God in our beloved churches,
now, in late twentieth and early twenty-first century America we are told to believe that our churches are "just buildings" and we ought not be attached to them. I don't know about you, but my mother taught me when I was just a child that this is one of the most important things that distinguishes us as Catholics from the protestants: our churches are open because we believe that they are holy places, that Our Lord is there, and that they are not just buildings. My mother was no liar.

Places where Our Lord has come to us sacramentally in His unbloody sacrifice, day after day after day, we are now told to believe are buildings like any other. That isn't Catholicism. That is materialism. And that, my friends, is precisely what the devil himself would have us believe. To believe our churches are only buildings would be to deny Our Lord's Eucharistic Presence, our ultimate and eternal destiny, and that for which we were created--the worship of God. In fact, to claim that our churches are just buildings would be to deny our spiritual nature, the indwelling of the Holy Ghost, and even our sacred baptisms and confirmations. To claim that our churches are just buildings is to deny the validity of their consecrations and blessings. To claim that our churches are just buildings is an insidious lie. And a lie is a lie no matter who says it.

By a decree of the Council of Trent (Sess. XXII), Mass should not be celebrated in any place except a consecrated or blessed church. Hence it is the wish of the Church that at least cathedrals and parish churches be solemnly consecrated, and that smaller churches be blessed (Cong. Sac. Rit., 7 Aug., 1875), but any church and public or semi-public oratory may be consecrated (Cong. Sac. Rit., 5 June, 1899). Both by consecration and by blessing a church is dedicated to Divine worship, which forbids its use for common or profane purposes. Consecration is a rite reserved to a bishop, who by the solemn anointing with holy chrism, and in the prescribed form, dedicates a building to the service of God, thereby raising it in perpetuum to a higher order, removing it from the malign influence of Satan, and rendering it a place in which favours are more graciously granted by God (Pontificale Romanum).  (From New Advent, the Catholic Encyclopedia.)

In the past, Catholics and Catholic buildings alike have been the targets of hatred and persecution. I need not list the litany of specific examples, but priests have been tarred and feathered, buildings blown up, altars desecrated, the Sacred Body of Our Lord maligned, churches vandalized. The history of anti-Catholicism in this country is well-documented and is, in fact, alive and well today. Of course in this country Catholics not even permitted to run for public office (and even when they were, there was serious doubt about their "patriotism"). Catholics have experienced horrible persecution in this and other countries, and by extension our houses of worship desecrated in the worst possible ways. Suffice it to say that many of you have likely heard the stories of your own ancestors and what they went through to preserve the faith, or even just to get to mass. I know I grew up hearing these stories of perseverance in the Faith, and my own family sacrificed much and for that I am so proud and so grateful. It is a great privilege to be born into a good Catholic family and to receive the benefits of our patrimony. The fruit of all that sacrifice is made real to us by virtue of worshiping in the places bequeathed to us by our ancestors and by the grace of God.

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These are St. Mary's founders, none of them rich and all hard working,
whose donations are listed down to the penny in a framed document
near the church's entryway. These are the generous souls who
sacrificed so that we may have a church to worship in. St. Mary's is
unique in the sense that just about everything in (and out of) the church
was and is bought, paid for, and maintained by members over the years.

It is amazing that at this point in American Catholic history, instead of the Catholic Church being the object of hostile attacks from without, our church buildings and even the Church itself is being attacked from within. Sadly, our shepherds are leading their sheep astray, and many souls will be lost. Instead of protecting our churches, our patrimony, they are being closed (and often the contents sold on ebay) and when faithful Catholics hold tight to the timeless teachings of their Faith, they are called all manner of things from "disobedient" to "unchristian" and worse. Sometimes these attacks are leveled, shamefully, by their own priests and bishops. Yes, many of the very bishops who

  • harbored child abusers, shuffling them from one parish to the next
  • affiliate themselves and do business with the likes of criminals who would steal churches and schools right out from under unsuspecting Catholics
  • allow the rampant sexual impropriety of priests in their diocese
  • advocate such unorthodox doctrine as married, gay, and "womyn" priests; as well as downplay of the sacrificial nature of the mass and many other things
  • repeatedly lie to the faithful in matters ranging from real estate transactions to canon law to theological Truth
  • justify closing churches by claiming there's a "priest shortage" and then persecuting and sending away priests by the dozen...
...yes, some of the very same bishops would be so blind and arrogant as to criticize the faithful Catholics who merely want to worship their Lord and Savior in the manner they always have: in their own churches. This is an outrage, and it should not be tolerated by any thinking Catholic.


Hideous
This is just one example of what we have to look forward to if the
likes of Bishop Galante and Marilyn Vollmer get their way. The
"priest shortage" red herring has been used as an excuse to
justify all manner of practices, from church closures to major
church, umm, "redecorations." I suppose in this day and age
this church could be considered "fortunate" to have survived
at all and to have a statue of our Blessed Mother still within it.

Sadly, it doesn't seem that they kneel anymore, but I
bet they hold hands a lot.


Beautiful old stations of the cross just to the left of the church
Stations of the Cross, St. Mary's Malaga.

He gave His All for us, so great was His love! He even gave us His very own
perfect Mother to be our Mother, too! Do we pack it in now, or do we continue to live that sacrifice in our own lives? Our Lord gave us our churches. He gave them to us for a very good reason: so that we could worship Him! He entrusted them to us that we may be good stewards of his holy Houses. We are called to lives of grace and sanctity, and we are called to defend the Faith by virtue of our baptism. We are to defend the Faith from all who attack it, whether the attackers be outside the Church or within it. Remember, St. John Bosco assures us that when the Church is battered by enemies from within or from without, salvation can only come from JESUS IN THE EUCHARIST; MARY, THE HELP OF CHRISTIANS; and THE POPE, the vicar of Christ on earth.

To those of you who missed out on The Snake Brothers and In High Gear, you really missed out on something great. No video clip can do either band justice. Luckily, you can still catch The Snake Brothers on Saturday August 29th at Estell Manor (the County Park) on Route 50 not far from Mays Landing. They are definitely worth coming out for. We will have all three of the Snake Brothers CDs for sale at the Feast tomorrow also, $15 each, but in limited quantity, so claim your copy quickly if you're a Snake Brothers Fan. I bought their live album.

Here is a tiny sample of the country/rock band In High Gear. They were a very good time. We recommend trying to catch them locally if you ever have the chance. They seem to have a following of people who came to the festivities today who had a good time dancing along to the music.
 

Here is a tiny sample of The Snake Brothers: (For more scroll down.)


Here is a tiny sample of a hayride. Yes, I turned my camera right-side up after a second! Woops. The hay rides are so much fun and they are only 50 cents a ticket!


Here is a tiny sample of the pony rides. They are $3 each and better than any pony ride I've seen at a fair this summer (and we went to quite a few). The woman you see leading the pony around has made her life's work about horses, so she doesn't just make the pony ride circuit.


This is just a video of my son and his little friend dancing.


Here is another tiny sample of The Snake Brothers.


And here is yet another tiny sample of The Snake Brothers. It is my single biggest regret of today (aside from asking that they play later in the day when there was a bit more of a crowd) that I did not get this entire song on video. It is on none of their CDs that I could find. It was my favorite of all the songs they performed today. They are so awesome and a bunch of truly nice people. THANK YOU to The Snake Brothers.


Remember, tomorrow we have Mr. Tujays and Jukebox Review playing at the feast in the afternoon and evening, all your favorite classic tunes. We'll also have a DJ, chicken BBQ, wine tasting and wine by the glass courtesy of Plagido's Winery, and beer (Bud, Bud Light, Michelob) by the glass or pitcher. Shrimp and clams, funnel cake, french fries, pizza, water ice, and tons more. $5 bracelets are available for the entire day for the inflatables (or $2 for two hours).
Here's Feast of the Assumption, St Mary's Malagawhat we have planned for the Feast of the Assumption, which begins tomorrow! Come join us, and for goodness sakes, remember to wear your special feast clothes (right).

Saturday Aug. 15th
  • Mass 5:00
  • The Snake Brothers (folk, country, do-wop, acoustic, awesome band), approximately 2:00-4:30pm (two sessions with a break in between)
  • In High Gear ("country rock" band), approximately 6:00-10:00pm
  • Shrimp & Clam Bar, sponsored by the Knights of Columbus
  • Food, food, and more food: Sausage, hot dogs, roast beef sandwiches, pizza (made by a parishioner!), meatballs, and more!
  • Beer Garden
  • Wine by the glass from Plagido's, an award winning winery
  • Inflatables and games
  • Pony Rides
  • Chinese Auction
  • Farmers Market (local farmers, including parishioners)
  • 50/50 Raffle
  • Balloons for sale

Sunday Aug. 16th
  • Mass 8:30 & 11:30, procession at 12:30Feast of the Assumption 08 Crowning
  • Talent Show 1-2:30
  • Mr. Tujays (band), 2:30-4:30
  • Jukebox Rebiew (band), 5-8:00
  • DJ Bill Mazza, throughout the day
  • Chicken BBQ
  • Shrimp & Clam Bar, sponsored by the Knights of Columbus
  • Tons of food to choose from: Sausage, hot dogs, roast beef sandwiches, pizza (made by a parishioner!), meatballs, and more!
  • Beer Garden
  • Wine tasting and wine by the glass from Sharrott & Plagido's. Both are award winning wineries.
  • Inflatables and games
  • Pony Rides
  • Chinese Auction
  • Bake Sale
  • Farmers Market (local farmers, including parishioners)
  • 50/50 Raffle
  • Balloons for sale

I received my most recent Coming Home Network International newsletter yesterday. In it, evangelical convert Keith Moore describes his journey into the Stained Glass WindowsCatholic Church. A combination of largely unchurched, Methodist, "nondenominational," and house church in background, he describes his first experience inside a Catholic church. He was visiting Washington state and attended mass at St. Aloysius, near Gonzaga University.

I will never forget walking into that beautiful Cathedral. I had never seen the Stations of the Cross. I had never seen such amazing stained glass windows, not just for their beauty, but for the stories they told of God's work in our lives. The statues were amazing...they suddenly seemed to me very important because of what they pointed to. I was almost trembling by the time we left that day.
St. Aloysius was built in 1911. How many "new" or modern Catholic churches have you seen that contain purposeful, beautiful, and inspiring art? I myself have seen almost none. That's not to say that it cannot be done, but that it usually is not.

What we have already in existence in the Diocese of Camden are churches that already have these things. St. Mary's, though small, has these things. It is not just a building, it is truly a house of God. It is through sacred art and the structure of a traditional Catholic church that we learn about the Faith. In and of itself, by virtue of its presence, it is a means of evangelization.

Beautiful churches draws in those who who know little about Catholicism, often without them even realizing why. In attempting to make our churches, and therefore our Faith palatable to those currently outside it, many have tried to lower the bar and create "spaces" that are less overtly Catholic and consequently less intimidating to those who do not understand the purpose of beautiful art inside a house of God. But in doing this we lose the very thing that makes our Church attractive to those who seek to join It. Our traditional Catholic churches are treasures that not only have historic merit, but serve an important purpose in our continual conversion.

When I am at mass at St. Mary's, I see all around me in the stained glass windows the saints who are interceding for us in Heaven, the angels who are witnesses at each and every holy sacrifice of the mass, and I am reminded of my place in God's order. Churches like St. Mary's should not be so flippantly dispensed with. They are God's silent tools of conversion.

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IMG_5876  Inside the Church St. Mary's Malaga
Above left, St. Mary's Malaga, NJ exterior. Above right, interior, epistle side, at sunset.

Here's something that happened to me today.
Things like this happen all the time, a couple times a week I'd say, but this time I thought I'd share it with you. It just never occurred to me before to blog about something so anecdotal.

Tonight I went to a farmer's market with my kids, my sister, and nieces. stmarysshirt.jpgI just happened to be wearing my St. Mary's Malaga t-shirt (as seen on left). While checking out some of the great things one of the women at the market was selling, she asked me,

"Is your church one of the ones slated to close?"

I was taken by surprise because I forgot that I was wearing my St. Mary's t-shirt.

I replied, "Yeah, but not if we can help it."

She said, "Good for you!" and continued to express her general disapproval of everything that was going on in the Diocese. She said, "I'm just lucky that my church is not one of the ones he wants to close. They built a new one. It's ultra-modern on the inside and I'm not sure I like it."

I said, "That's why we love our church. People really sacrificed to build it. It's old and traditional, dating from 1922, it's got beautiful stained glass windows, and it's just gorgeous."

She said, "I hope they don't close your church."

I said, "We're fighting, and we'll take it all the way to Rome if we have to."

She nodded enthusiastically in agreement and said, "Yes! That's what you should do.St Mary's Malaga It's not right."

We talked a little more before browsing more around the market. The woman was very nice, but she seemed a little depressed about the way things were headed in the Diocese, and what they'd done with her parish. My impression is that, for a lot of Catholics in the Diocese, churches like St. Mary's mean a lot to them, even if they aren't members there. They represent Catholicism as they know it. (Which is probably part of why we are being persecuted in favor of a "new catholicism.") Even to visit a church like St. Mary's helps them feel closer to God. I guess some of the larger, more sterile, "theater-in-the-round" churches (see below) just don't do the trick, so to speak, but it's what they've got.

As I said, St.Isidore.jpgI've had conversations almost identical to this any number of times. Not once have I heard someone say, "Well the bishop's probably got good reasons," or "Your church is too small anyway," or "There's a priest shortage you know," or anything like that.

A couple weeks ago a man who helps run a local pool where I took my son to swimming lessons found out I went to St. Mary's. He told me how much he loves that church, even though he's not a member there, and that I could return to the pool anytime I wanted, even though I'm not a member, just because he holds the church in such high regard.

A little over a year ago I visited a South Jersey historian who happened to be a Methodist. She said, "Well I'm not St Mary's Malagaa Catholic, but there's just something special about St. Mary's. You can feel it when you walk in the door."

Without exception we have experienced popular support and, frankly, disgust over the bishop's intention to close our church and other churches. Most frequently, people disapprove of what they see as a discrepancy between church closures and diocesan real estate holdings, scandals, and, well, as one man put it to me the other week, "corruption and hypocrisy in the Church." Take the pulse of the people of the Diocese of Camden and the people on the street, and I think you'll find they are jaded to say the least. Evidently what people respond to are not grand "restructuring" schemes in which their churches are stolen from them, but bishops who obviously live the Gospel and love Jesus, who show that they really care about those entrusted to them, who are honest, and who are not politically involved. People are not stupid. They see right through all these things.

The point is, if these are the sentiments we are hearing expressed from people whose churches are not expected to close, and in many cases the sentiments expressed by non-Catholics or nominal Catholics, can you imagine what people think of the plan whose churches are in a limbo state (a la "secondary worship site," a status which supposedly no longer exists) or whose churches are supposed to get the ax? Maybe it's time for some more "listening sessions," huh?
On Sun. Aug. 16, 2009, Sharrott Winery of Winslow Township, NJ (not far from Hammonton) and Plagido's Winery of Hammonton, NJ will be hosting a wine tasting at St. Mary's Feast of the Assumption.

One ticket will allow feast-goers unlimited wine tasting throughout the day, plus a free souvenir wine glass. We also hope to be selling wine by the glass. Plagido's and Sharrott will have their wines available for purchase by the bottle as well.

Sharrott Winery won "Best Chardonnay" at a prestigious international wine competition. And having had Plagido's wines, I can tell you they are also very good! We are privileged to have two amazing wineries join our Feast!


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Well known South Jersey band The Snake Brothers SnakeBrothers.jpgare scheduled to play at the Feast of the Assumption Festival on Saturday August 15th. They will also have CDs and things available for purchase! There are 3 CDs currently available, $15 each. You will not regret picking one up.

The Snake Brothers describe themselves as "South Jersey's own swingin', do-woppin', cowboyin', acoustic band." I think that about sums it up. I have their CD, South Jersey Waltz, and can tell you they are awesome. Do not miss it!

A huge thank you in advance to The Snake Brothers for your generous offer to play at our Feast! We are very much looking forward to it.

Other Feast News:
Remember, we also have 50-50 tickets ($10/ticket or if you'd like to try to sell a book let us know) and Chicken BBQ tickets for sale ($9). The Chicken BBQ, by the way, is reverting to the previous "BBQer" and barring any unforeseen hail storms (!!!) everything should be wonderful. In the past people have absolutely raved about how wonderful the BBQ chicken is. By the way, the chicken will be available on Sunday only. On Saturday we will have other food items that I'm sure will be delicious also. You may buy tickets before and after all masses as well as from Angela in the rectory. 856-694-2576

We will also be selling--but not in advance--tickets/bracelets for unlimited wine tasting. In addition, there will be wine by the glass. The wine is locally crafted from internationally award-winning South Jersey wineries. We will also have our beer garden. Please do not forget to sign up for the talent show. You do not have to be a member of the church to participate in the talent show! Call the rectory (or contact us) to sign up. 856-694-2576

Freedom??? How Ironic!

Summertime at St Mary'sThese churches were built by our people so that they could be free, and so that we could be free, too.

At St. Mary's we have a truly united Catholic community. We love our church and have no desire to see it needlessly destroyed by those without God's will--not to mention history--in mind. The Catholic families who established St. Mary's long, long ago were primarily hard working, Southern Italian farming families. They didn't have much money. But they scrimped and saved what they had to give us the beautiful church we have today.

One of our parishioners' ancestors even took a horse and carriage all the way down to Atlantic City to obtain bricks and construction materials for the church. Can you imagine how long a trip that was back in those days? (Photo below: donor's list)
Benefactors, Donators, Founders
My own family did not help establish St. Mary's Malaga. My family comes from Sacred Heart in Vineland and St. Mary's (Union Rd, see photo below), East Vineland. My family on both sides came from the same small farming village near Genoa in Northern Italy. Neither family knew each other until they came to Vineland, both by way of New York City. I grew up hearing all the stories of hardships they had encountered.

My ancestors were so poor they sold paper flowers St. Mary's Church, East Vineland. 1940s?on the streets of New York. My great grandmother was a janitor in a school established by Mother Cabrini (ora pro nobis!) and she considered it a great privilege just to mop the floors upon which the great saint had once walked. Mother Cabrini was, of course, sent to the United States specifically to help the poor Italians in their struggles to make better lives for themselves in the New World. 

In addition to the hardships of poverty, they were badly persecuted, primarily by the Irish Catholics. What I always found ironic about this, growing up, was that one group of Catholics, not terribly long in this country themselves, would turn around and treat so horribly another group of Catholics. But the Left: Angelo DeMarchihuman memory is short, it seems. In any case, my family could not worship in the Irish Catholic church because they were unwelcome there.

One of my great grandmothers came to Vineland as a child as a "Fresh Air Kid." The Fresh Air Fund, which still exists, takes city kids and gives them some summer fun in the country. My great grandmother vowed that when she grew up she would move to Vineland. And that's what she did. Both sides of the family moved to Vineland and had big farms on which they raised, among other things, chickens, which my grandfather hated. (He said they were very stupid animals and did not even like to eat them. On the right is my great grandfather, Angelo.)

Apparently, on my grandfather's side at least, way back during Prohibition they did some running of bootleg liquor back and forth from NYC until it got "too dangerous." My grandfather's family also had a printing business in Vineland, which was once located on West Avenue, and later in the Industrial Park, called DeMarchi Printing. Although my grandfather dropped out of school by about sixth grade (he hated school as well as chickens), he was quite the businessman and farmer/gardener. He took over the family printing business, grew it, and much later on sold it as it got too big for him.
Probably Laura's classroom at Main & Oak., Vineland NJ
My grandmother was the first to attend college in our family. She went to Glassboro, although I believe it was called the "Normal School" at that time. She taught in a one-room schoolhouse in East Vineland, and I believe later at the school on Main and Oak in Vineland (see photo left). My grandparents worked very hard, were not extravagant, were nothing if not generous, and mended their clothing until it was unmendable. The money they had went to their church, their community, their family, and to charity. I owe them everything.
Doris, presumably living room on Valley Ave., circa 1956
It was recently commented in the St. Mary's parish bulletin that we should "always cherish--and not take for granted--the many freedoms that we enjoy in this country." How ironic that after all those years of hardship and struggle to worship in peace in their own churches, that our families should once again find themselves persecuted by those who are part of the same Catholic Faith. Our families worked so hard to give us not just our Faith, but our Faith made tangible. By their own blood and sweat, they gave us churches to worship in--that was their gift to us. We do not take our freedom to worship in those churches for granted. Our religious freedom, in a very literal sense, was bought and paid for by our ancestors. May we once again have the true freedom that is the promise of this country.

On right: Laura Picconi. Middle; one of her brothers. Left: Unknown. Circa 1926. Relative farming? 1920s?
Above photos: My mother Doris in her First Holy Communion dress, my grandmother Laura on the farm (she's on the far right), and a relative farming shot.
From the Bulletin:

It's getting to be that time of year again. We especially want this year to be a great success. Let us make it a truly special Feast for Our Lady. Let us put all our heart and soul in it. After all this is Our Tradition, something good to look forward to. Let us work together for Our Lady and Our Church! We all know the deal. We need everyone involved.

  • Chicken BBQ tickets will be on sale after each mass.

  • 50/50 raffle tickets will also be on sale after each mass. Both BBQ and raffle tickets may be purchased at the rectory.

  • We will need baked goods, soda, and water -- name brands only. Look for volunteer sign-up sheets in church.

  • Donations for Chinese Auction: Anything you can offer will be appreciated, including money for others to purchase auction items. See Joann Betz or call the rectory to participate. (You can also contact info@savestmarys.net for any of these.)

  • Feast Talent Show will be August 16th. For sign-ups, please call the rectory or Mrs. Wilson: 609-774-1559. All musicians are required to bring their own instruments and sound equipment.

  • We are also hoping for help to organize things like horseshoe tournaments, sack races, and corn or pie eating contests.

Not yet set in stone: By the way, it looks like we may have some awesome professional bands playing this year, from classic rock to bluegrass, including a surprise guest. We also hope to have two local wineries participating and a beer garden in additional to our normal activities. We will be selling tickets for the wine tasting and wine by the glass. Please make plans to come out, to help out, and make this feast the best one ever.
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I was in Euchristic Adoration yesterday and toward the end of my hour the woman mentioned in the story, Christina Thomasello, approached me inquiring about our church. We'd never met before. Ms. Thomasello just happened to be driving down Route 40 and noticed St. Mary's, and did a U-turn. She was nothing less than amazed. She told me, "This is the most beautiful church I've ever seen!" All I could say was, "I know!"

As it turns out, she and a group of people unhappily find themselves at the center of a controversy. You see, a diverse bunch of people from the Atlantic City area, including people without a thing in the world to call their own or problems none of us wish to face, have been unwittingly transformed by God. Somehow, God drew this unlikely group of people together in their common effort to restore a lovely shrine to Our Lady of Lourdes at Our Lady Star of the Sea.


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Ms. Thomasello showed me a copy of the newspaper article and relayed to me the group's interest not in changing anything at the church or shrine, but in finding out what it once looked like and helping to fix it up. Many in this group have contributed plants, stonework, and a heck of a lot of labor. All this they gave from their own time and effort without any expectation of repayment, just because they wanted to. Strangely, they have encountered much resistence to their efforts from the pastor, Rev. Pham. In their attempts to win his heart, they purchased from their own pockets a lovely statue of St. Bernadette, now the center of this seemingly ridiculous controversy, and had it sent to the rectory as a gift. Of course this strikes us as really odd since people donate things to St. Mary's all the time, eveything from stained glass windows to handywork to statues in the rosary garden to plants to small statues placed around the church. Our shrine room is bursting at the seems with beautiful statues, pictures, and relics of the saints.

Of course, Andy Walton has to chime in with a typically bizarre comment or two. "There's no history of that," (meaning no history of the shrine being dedicated to Our Lady of Lourdes) as if he would have any familiarity with the histor of this parish anyway. (The man lives in Pennsylvania.) But isn't this beside the point? Whatever happened to courtesy? Why alienate the Catholic faithful by rejecting the gift of their time, talents, and gifts?

One has to wonder if the group of people involved were wealthy and influential, the Diocese would look quite differently upon them. With all this talk about wanting to transform the Diocese of Camden's churches into places that throb with "social justice ministries," it seems particularly ironic that they would allow a group of disaffected people to be treated so rudely. And all this talk about trying to win back lapsed Catholics, you would think a thing like this would warm the hearts of the Galante administration. Huh. Guess not.

Mr. Walton concludes with, "It's not her shrine." That's interesting. In my conversation with Thomasello she was mystified by the implication that she believed the shrine belonged to her. However it struck us that if in this "process" of "transforming" the Diocese was to be influenced by the "voice of the people," (which nobody I know truly believes,) then whose churches are they? Whose shrines are they? In the end, they ought to belong to the people who care for them, pray at them, and love them.

But of course, all this talk has nothing to do with politics or property value...


Article below:
 


Church officials say there is no evidence the shrine at Our Lady Star of the Sea in Atlantic City is dedicated to Our Lady of Lourdes. But Christina Thomasello is looking for photos to prove otherwise.

Photo by: Danny Drake

There's an unwelcome guest at a local church rectory: St. Bernadette.

Standing 2 feet tall, a stone statue of the saint sits behind locked doors in the rectory offices.

And because of a spat about a nearby shrine, she has become an unlikely hostage.

When a parishioner at Our Lady Star of the Sea in Atlantic City paid for the statue to be delivered to the parish office earlier this spring, she says, she had hoped to see the figure placed at an outdoor shrine on the church's grounds.

But instead, Christina Thomasello says her prayer for a completed shrine to Our Lady of Lourdes has been derailed.

The pastor there, the Rev. Joseph Pham, disagrees with her plan to build a shrine in a way he says detracts from the church's identity.

And so, when St. Bernadette arrived by priority mail in March, Pham did not put her at the shrine. He held on to her.

"This is a situation where a priest has to balance the need to maintain the integrity of the shrine with the desires of some of the parishioners," said Andy Walton, spokesman for the Catholic Diocese of Camden, who expressed support for Pham's actions.

At the heart of the dispute -- and what keeps Bernadette in a holding pattern -- is a split between local Catholics, who see two interpretations of what the shrine represents.

Stop by the site, at the corner of Atlantic and California avenues, and you will see a tall, pale statue of the Virgin Mary standing in a stone alcove.

A nearby sign says the stone basin by the guardrail contains water from Lourdes, France -- where a peasant girl, Bernadette Soubirous, claimed to see a repeated vision of the Virgin Mary in 1858. Faithful pilgrims now flock to that original site, often in hopes of healing.

But alongside that basin at the Atlantic City site sit decorative anemone and conch shells, clues that the shrine, like the parish, may be dedicated to Our Lady Star of the Sea. The name refers to the Virgin Mary and remains popular in areas with sea-faring heritage.

Thomasello, who refers to the shrine as Our Lady of Lourdes, insisted recently that her motives were to bring the shrine back to its former glory. "I wanted to restore it," she said on a recent afternoon, as she and fellow parishioners Horace Robinson and Robert Carpo Jr. met at the shrine, which she noted dates back to the 1930s.

But other parishioners were not so sure. Mary McConnell, who stopped by the shrine just before noon Sunday, said the Lourdes tributes -- which also include prayer cards and articles about purported miracles performed in France -- were recent additions. "I think they started showing up in December," McConnell said.

Walton said there is no evidence the site is dedicated to the apparitions at Lourdes. "There's no history of that," he said Saturday.

As for allowing Thomasello or others to place a statue there, he said that would open the door to any parishioner customizing a public shrine at their own expense.

"It's not her shrine," Walton said.

As far as Thomasello's hopes to reclaim the statue, Raymond Daiutolo Sr., southern New Jersey representative for the U. S. Postal Service, said laws on mail do not help her case.

Whether or not the package had been addressed to her by name, Daiutolo said, the fact that it was sent to a church -- which qualifies as a business -- meant it could legally be held by staff at the rectory office. "If someone has mail sent to a business address, those mail items technically belong to the business," he said.

Statues of St. Bernadette are big sellers for catalogs that cater to the religious community: Stone or ceramic versions of the saint, traditionally depicted kneeling in prayer, can go for as much as $100.

Walton said Saturday that Pham now wants Thomasello to come and pick up her Bernadette.

Thomasello was not available to respond to that invitation Sunday.

But she previously said she had been searching for photos, which may solve the mystery of the shrine's identity.

"I've heard that there used to be metal letters over the top of the shrine," she said. "We want to know what they said."

If local historians have photos that show a historic Lourdes link, that might allow the homeless St. Bernadette statue to settle there.

But until then, Walton said, the statue was unwanted. "Right now, to have two identities here -- that's just confusing."

E-mail Juliet Fletcher:

JFletcher@pressofac.com


Stained Glass Windows

Here is a slideshow displaying the majority of the stained glass windows at St. Mary's. (And some other things, too.) I personally have traveled around the country and have lived and traveled in western Europe and can tell you that these stained glass windows are among the most beautiful I've ever seen. They are particularly beautiful when the sun is streaming through them in the morning.

As you may be able to see from the pictures, each window was paid for by a Society or a family. This was no small task for mostly rural people without much money. Nevertheless, these families, couples, individuals, and religious groups sacrificed so that today we could have the beautiful little church with which we are now so greatly blessed.

We give of ourselves to our local church out of love and devotion to Our Lord and His Mother. These stained glass windows were painstakingly designed, created, and installed so that when we attend Holy Mass we may sense God's presence and that of the saints and angels. Truly Holy Mother Church teaches us that the blessed angels hover around the altar at Mass! Surely the saints also look on during so great an event.

The descendents of the contributors of these windows intend them for use at St. Mary's and not to be sold off at some auction as if they were nothing more than any standard piece of household furniture. Let us not forget the importance of their lives and contributions to St. Mary's. It is because of our forbears that we have our Faith.



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Why We Fight

Since the Bishop's reconfiguration announcement, I have often wondered why so few parishes have really fought against their pending mergers. I think at least part of the reason is because people do not really understand the degree of harm these mergers will have on the faith of many parishioners. At St. Mary's, we know from our own experience and that contributes, at least in part, to the reason we will never stop fighting to keep our parish open.

St. Mary's history has not always been a pretty one, but it's important to share because it illustrates the magnitude of the impact of this type of "reconfiguration" on the salvation of souls. The information below is not intended as a criticism of the former pastors of St. Mary's, but simply to illustrate this point.

Perpetual Adoration BeginsFrom its establishment as a mission in 1922 until it became a parish in 1961, St. Mary's did not have a resident pastor. A rectory was built when the parish was established and from that point on we have had a resident pastor.

One of our first resident pastors was a very personable German priest, who the parishioners loved very much. The only criticism that I've ever heard about him was that he drank a lot, and this did become a big problem. He installed a full bar in the basement of the rectory and, on weekends, he would go down to the docks in Camden or Philadelphia and bring groups of German sailors back to the rectory for rowdy parties. A friend of mine (and distant cousin) who grew up next door to the church remembers waking up on Saturday mornings to the sight of these sailors passed out on her front lawn. Large sums of money were taken from the St. Mary's bank account to pay for the alcohol and parties. At one point, one of the trustees took the checkbook from the pastor, but he apparently had another checkbook hidden somewhere and continued to spend the parish's money on alcohol.

I've heard stories of him being so drunk at parish functions that he could not even walk, but would have to crawl around on his hands and knees. The final straw, from what I'm told (this all happened before I was born), was when he was so drunk during some important, solemn Mass that he fell over backwards while saying Mass. At that point, a few parishioners complained to the Bishop.
 
The Bishop removed this German priest, and sent in an Irish priest to take his place as pastor. This new priest quickly alienated the entire parish. He made remarks from the pulpit that he "wasn't used to dealing with ignorant farmers," and that he was too educated to associate with the people of Malaga, because only two of St. Mary's parishioners had college degrees at that time.
 
Stained glass donated by...He immediately disbanded all parish organizations, which included a very active St. Theresa's Society, Holy Name Society, and Knights of Columbus. In their place he allowed only the Legion of Mary (an organization of Irish origin). He seemed to dislike Italians, which would have included most St. Mary's parishioners at the time, and all things Italian. He began giving away (or at least trying to give away) the religious items of the church (including the tabernacle), most of which had been donated by parishioners, and replacing them with used items from inner-city Irish churches.
 
Perpetual Adoration BeginsPeople believed he had been sent to St. Mary's by the Chancery as a punishment for having complained about the previous pastor, which everyone thoroughly regretted having done at that point. Everything came to a head when the reforms of Vatican II were implemented and the altar was relocated. This pastor wanted to cut a foot off the width of the marble altar, which the St. Theresa Society had purchased from Italy for more than $5,000 just a few years earlier, so that it would be easier for him to move around behind it. Parishioners sought help from the Bishop, but were told that they were attacking the church and that they were anti-Catholic, etc.  (Basically, the same lines we are hearing today.) Receiving no help from the Bishop and unable to reason with the pastor, one of the women from the St. Theresa Society finally just made the pastor an offer he couldn't refuse.
 
From that point on, he generally backed off, but the damage was already largely done. Disillusioned and feeling betrayed by this pastor, some parishioners left the Catholic Church altogether. Many others remained Catholic, but just quit going to church. Most of these have still not returned - this type of wound does not heal quickly or easily. In fact, the Treasurer of the St. Theresa Society, after it was disbanded, waited for approximately twenty-five years (until this pastor finally retired) before turning the Society's funds over to the church.
 
During the course of those twenty-five or so years, this pastor actually became very fond of St. Mary's and its parishioners. When he finally retired, he bought a house just a few streets down from the church. I remember back in Looking inside St. Mary's Catholic Church1997 or 1998, several years after he had retired as pastor of St. Mary's and shortly before his death, this pastor came back to say a Mass, during which he apologized for "nearly destroying the parish." At the end of the Mass, he knelt in the middle of the doorway and everyone had to touch his head on the way out of church as a sign of forgiveness. It was kind of weird, but I think it was good that he at least understood and tried to make amends for the damage he had done to St. Mary's and its parishioners.
 
The shame of the situation is that this pastor had driven so many people from the Church in the process of trying to "improve" the parish and implement his "vision" of what the parish should be. Yet even the scandal of his alcoholic predecessor did not cause anywhere near the amount of harm that he did by trying to improve the parish. Ironically, he is considered to have been a great priest by many people (mostly outside of St. Mary's) for really developing the Legion of Mary within the Diocese of Camden. While I have a great deal of respect for the Legion of Mary, this positive work that he did could easily have been accomplished without doing so much damage to the parish of St. Mary's.

I feel the same way about the Bishop's plan today. Many things can be done to "improve" the vibrancy of parish life without destroying parishes. Birthdays celebrationIf people lost their faith (at least in the Catholic Church hierarchy, if not altogether) because of the betrayal and marginalization felt when their religious organizations were needlessly suppressed and their religious items, donated by parishioners, were needlessly discarded, how much more so will it be when the parish itself is suppressed and the church itself is needlessly sold off. The previous blog post is just one example of how the faith of parishioners is being affected already.

The worst part is, for parishes like St. Mary's, which have already suffered at the hands of the hierarchy, closing the parish and church will just be the final nail in the coffin for so many of those who already left. The last attachment they have to the Church will be taken from them. No choir, however beautifully they sing, and no ministry, however convenient or useful, will fill that hole. Bishop Galante doesn't have twenty-five years to realize the harm he is doing - he won't have the opportunity to kneel in the back of the churches and ask forgiveness.

Donation BasketDespite St. Mary's difficulties over the years, however, we have persevered. No matter the challenges presented by pastors, obstacles imposed by bishops past and present, or even lack of parishioners' material wealth, St. Mary's remains. In fact, our willingness to fight for our parish, for our Diocese, and for our Faith epitomizes the difference between a weak parish and a strong parish.

My brethren, count it all joy, when you shall encounter various trials, knowing that the trying of your faith worketh endurance (James 1:3).

It has been a blessing to be strengthened by these tests of faith over the years:

Every one shall help his neighbor, and shall say to his brother: Be of good courage. The coppersmith striking with the hammer encouraged him that forged at that time, saying: It is ready for soldering: and he strengthened it with nails, that it should not be moved....Thou art my servant, I have chosen thee, and have not castIMG_5366 thee away. Fear not, for I am with thee: turn not aside, for I am thy God: I have strengthened thee, and have helped thee, and the right hand of my just one hath upheld thee. (Isais 41:6-10)
It is our belief that this most recent struggle is merely another chapter in the history of St. Mary's. In all of life's struggles we are blessed by God, and we offer our efforts to Christ Crucified, His Majesty, who is our Master. We certainly will not give up now. So we fight on!
I picked up a copy of the December 2008 newsletter "Presbytery Life" last night, which is "A Newsletter of the Regional Church of New Jersey in the Orthodox Presbyterian Church." Why? I'm a religion nerd, basically. When I got it home and took a look at it, I saw that on the front page is an article entitled, "Providence Glassboro Relocates." Same old story. Rowan expands, expands, expands, and a developer tries to buy them out.. The church is forced to find a new location. Quote [ironic emphasis mine]:

In early 2007 the developer asked a real estate agent to show us a Roman Catholic building in Mantua that had become available. Imagine what it was like for a group of devout Presbyterians to walk into a Roman Catholic church building trying to visualize what it would be like to worship in an auditorium that was presently adorned with several icons and crucifixes, and which housed three confessional booths in the back. There were several good points about the property, including the size of the main church building, a substantial parking lot located in a good residential area. However, the property also included a large church rectory with offices, six bedrooms and three large living rooms. We believed the entire property would not only be too costly for the developers to be willing to buy, but would be too costly for our congregation to maintain.

In January of 2008 the developer asked if we would reconsider the Catholic church property if they would purchase it for us and subdivide the rectory for a separate sale. In response to this offer, we noted that before it would meet our basic needs a number of things would need to be done by the seller and the developer to bring the building up to date....We submitted these items to the developer along with the request that they pay off the balance of our OPC Loan Fund mortgage on the Glassboro property.

After what had seemed to us a great period of uncertainty, the Mantua property was acquired in our behalf and we received the keys to the building in October of 2008. The building has a basement (something we did not have in Glassboro), auditorium has more than adequate pews for our present needs, and in addition a functioning carillon and an Allan Digital Organ. [The developer agrees to do a ton of upgrade work to the property which must easily total a hundred thousand dollars.] We began worshiping in Mantua on a regular basis on November 23, 2008.

...the Lord has taught us much....After all, a building is not the church, the body of Christ is the church.

While we still continue to struggle over our financial situation in maintaining our ministry, we, nevertheless, stand overwhelmed by the fact that the Lord has taken us from a property that was purchased in 1994 for $100,000 to a property that will have cost the developers close to $1,000,000.00! ...

Tax record information as to the transaction publicly available here.

As you may have already guessed, the church that was sold for $900,000 (according to tax records, anyway) was the original Incarnation parish, whose history you may find here. I have a friend who lived nearby Incarnation, where she used to attend daily mass. Apparently they  used to hold daily mass in the original, smaller church owing to its small size. I suppose it was considered a good location for smaller, more intimate gatherings. This friend of mine would not go to the larger, new church, built in 2002. As I understand it, many still loved the old church building and were sad to see it unnecessarily sold. The old church, after all, looked a lot like a...church. The new church isn't the ugliest I've ever seen. It is what it is, an auditorium-style church-in-the-round, 1970s style. But hey, for close to a million bucks, just how necessary is it to keep the old church?

While I feel glad for the Presbyterian congregation's good fortune, as they are merely trying to worship the Lord the best way they know how, it is nevertheless depressing to see the former location of the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass stripped of altar, crucifix, stations, statues, etc. In the newsletter picture of the "new" church, you can see the alcoves that once held, presumably, statues of St. Joseph and Our Blessed Mother now empty. Get ready, folks, because this first symbolic act is just the tiniest foretaste of the atrocities about to be committed if the Diocese goes forward  What a great offense to Our Lord and His Mother, with all the angels and saints as witnesses.

Church

Stained Glass Window
Stained glass window, St. Mary's,
Malaga. "In Memory Of"

The late John Updike wrote this:

There was a time when I wondered why more people did not go to church. Taken purely as a human recreation, what could be more delightful, more unexpected, than to enter a venerable and lavishly scaled building kept warm and clean for use one or two hours a week. And to sit and stand in unison and sing and recite creeds and petitions that are like paths warn smooth in the raw terrain of our hearts. To listen or not listen as a poorly paid but resplendently robed man strives to console us with scraps of ancient epistles and halting accounts hopelessly compromised by words of those intimations of divine joy that are like pain in that the instant they're gone the mind cannot remember or believe them. To witness the windows donated by departed patrons and the altar flowers arranged by withdrawn hands, and the whole considered spectacle lustrous beneath its patina of inheritance. To pay for all this no more than we are moved to give, surely in all democracy there is nothing like it. Indeed it's the most available democratic experience. We vote less than once a year. Only in church and at the polls are we actually given our supposed value, our arithmetic of equality, one equals one.

stained glass donated by...
Stained glass window, St. Mary's, Malaga. "Donated By."

I thought there was something beautiful about this description of what a church experience meant to one important American writer and I wanted to share it with you. (Of course, St. Mary's is open every day of the week...)
Or: Bishop Galante & Company Realty,
the Religious Entity Formerly Known as,
"The Diocese of Camden"
The Entity Formerly Known as the Diocese of Camden

Not so long ago, we were informed that the St. Padre Pio Shrine over in Landisville, which is a shrine erected on family property as an act of devotion by private citizens and not by the diocese, was turned over to the Diocese of Camden.

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We do not have the details of the transaction, but have been aware for some time that Bishop Galante and Company have been after this property for awhile.


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As many of you are probably aware, lay Catholics have been erecting shrines, altars, and even chapels on their farms, in their homes, in their yards, on roadways, and elsewhere as long as the Catholic Church has existed. These private devotional areas have not typically been under the purview of the Church. This is nothing new. (link, link, link, link, great link)

Continuing in this ancient tradition, we could walk or drive down a residential street in just about any town in America and find statues of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, the Blessed Mother, St. Therese of the Child Jesus, St. Jude, St. Francis of Assisi, St. Anthony of Padua, heavenly angels, you name it.

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In the case of my own neighbors, they have a shrine on a small hill in honor of St. Jude. This little shrine in their backyard was erected in thanksgiving. When the mother (and family matriarch) got sick with cancer, one of her daughters prayed for the intercession of St. Jude, saint of hopeless causes, in the hope of a cure. When the mother got well, seemingly miraculously, the daughter kept her promise to St. Jude that she would erect a shrine to his honor.

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Since we had a little snow today, there's some glare
in this photo. In the spring they plant flowers on
the hill and it looks quite nice. To the right is
the driveway, to the left the rest of our backyards.

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Here's another interesting little story about this family. The same daughter, whose first name is Rita, was thus named in thanksgiving to St. Rita. While fighting in World War II, her father was saved from gunshot by crouching behind a statue of St. Rita. He promised that if ever he had a daughter, she would have the honor of receiving this saint's blessed name.

When we thought of privately constructed shrines, strangely enough, what came to our minds was the "Chapel of Peace" located in Storybook Land in EHT. You may remember the 18 by 20 foot "Chapel of Peace" there and never gave it a second thought.
 
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It was originally located in Vineland. It was built on private property (a farm) in 1885 by eighteen-year-old Andrew Cresci as a gift to his parents. It has a pipe organ inside, lovely stained glass windows, and mass was said there regularly.

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According to the posted history, this chapel was never diocesan property. Eventually the chapel, along with a couple other small, historical buildings, was relocated to Storybook Land.
 
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Undoubtedly many of you are familiar with other shrines and chapels whose stories are similar.

The point is, why is it that because a layperson or group of laypersons erects a shrine on private property, our current bishop feels that he has the right to it? Are all things Catholic now subject to "eminent domain?" Look out if your property is in a particularly desirable area. Worse still if he sees it as prime territory for one of his Quatholic McMegaChurches.

A question remains in our minds: If the elderly woman who helped build the Padre Pio Shrine had instead decided to open a pizza place, would Bishop Galante and Company have felt as easy approaching her for the "donation" of her property? Probably not.

Given the abundance of real estate wheelings and dealings and corporate ventures in which the Diocese of Camden has gotten itself involved, it seems that Galante and Company are now in the business of gobbling up not only churches but also private property to which they believe they have a right. This increasing corporatization of the Church leaves us with a very uneasy feeling. We are to be the Pilgrim Church on Earth, in the world and not of it. But perhaps those sentiments need only apply to the laity.


But he that shall scandalize one of these little ones that
believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone should
be hanged about his neck, and that he should be drowned in
the depth of the sea. Woe to the world because of scandals. For
it must needs be that scandals come: but nevertheless
woe to that man by whom the scandal cometh.

Matthew 18:6-7


Petition

Please email us at info@savestmarys.net if you would like your name added to the petition. Thank you and God bless you!

I always made an effort to stress that the parish is not an accidental collection of Christians who happen tolive in the same neighborhood...Through careful listening to the word of Scripture and sound instruction in the faith they are enabled to experience their lives, and the life of the parish, as a dynamic sharing in the history of salvation. That experience, in turn, becomes a powerful motive for evangelization.
                                                                        -Pope John Paul II (1998)

We, the undersigned, strenuously object to the closing and merging of St. Mary's in Malaga and all other vibrant, viable parishes within the Diocese of Camden. In addition to providing the Sacraments and fostering out spiritual growth, our parishes have many active groups providing spiritual and material assistance to those in need in our communities. Closing and merging parishes in our neighborhoods is not only unnecessary and devastating to the parishioners, but it is also detrimental to many communities within the Diocese of Camden. Furthermore, we vigorously oppose the sale and future use of church properties for anything but that for which they were originally intended--the Catholic Christian worship of God. We pray you will reconsider your actions and reverse this decision.

                                                               NAME                                           TOWN

1

Al DeValerio

Newfield

2

Alberta Winkler

N. Vineland

3

Alex Benarba

Clayton

4

Alexia Farside

Vineland

5

Alexis Ramos

Malaga

6

Alice Obert

Clayton

7

Alicia Rivera

Clayton

8

Allen Kerski

Clayton

9

Allison Sieminski

Glassboro

10

Alysha Chambers

Elmer

11

Amanda Bosco

Malaga

12

Amanda Kelleher

Newfield

13

Amanda Rippel

Frankinville

14

Amee Muller

Clayton

15

Amy Chamberlin

Franklinville

16

Amy Ryan

Clayton

17

Ana Sales

Williamstown

18

Andrea Craig

Clayton

19

Andrea Marcellina

Williamstown

20

Andrew E. Kilroy

Malaga

21

Andrew J. Moore

Clayton

22

Andrew J. Moore, Sr.

Clayton

23

Andrew Kasper

Clayton

24

Andrew Nelson

Clayton

25

Andrew Schifano

Colts Neck

26

Andrew Vassallo

Newfield

27

Angel DeMaro

Glassboro

28

Angel Gaull

Clayton

29

Angel Lugo

Clayton

30

Angela Gaull

Clayton

31

Angela Ledzinski

Clayton

32

Angelina Rutkowski

Elm 

33

Ann Waldman

Clayton

34

Anna Chamberlin

Franklinville

35

Anna Mackewick

Clayton

36

Anne Bauer

Clayton

37

Anne Hercy

Williamstown

38

Anne Teta

Clayton

39

Annette Rumph

Clayton

40

Annie Brunner

Clayton

41

Anthony DelPalazzo

Voorhees

42

Anthony M. Colache

Williamstown

43

Anthony Rizzo

Newfield

44

Anthony Roman

Franklinville

45

Anthony Yoworsky

Clayton

46

Anthony Ramos

Malaga

47

Antoinette Boylan

Clayton

48

Aracelis Acosta

Clayton

49

Ashley Lehman

Franklinville

50

Ashley Preine

Franklinville

51

B.T. Lilimore

Pittsgrove

52

Barb Liescko

Pittsgrove

53

Barbara Ann McCann

Pittsgrove

54

Barbara Carrigan

Williamstown

55

Barbara DeValerio

Newfield

56

Barbara Sage

Clayton

57

Benancio Espinal

Clayton

58

Bernie Blatt

Forest Grove

59

Betty Fischer

Malaga

60

Beverly Stiner

Clayton

61

Bill Boeckle

Glassboro

62

Bill Cipollone

Malaga

63

Bill Dalessandro

Malaga

64

Bill Laner

Franklinville

65

Bill Roberts

Clayton

66

Billy Cipollone

Malaga

67

Bob Raymond

Clayton

68

Brad Pantaleo

Malaga

69

Bradley Smith

Franklinville

70

Brandon Maynor

Millville

71

Brendan Kirby

Clayton

72

Brian Dean

Monroeville

73

Brian Dtari

Clayton

74

Brian Schifano

Colts Neck

75

Brittney Shaw

Clayton

76

Bryan Burkert

Franklinville

77

Buddy Craig

Franklinville

78

C. Daugherty

Malaga

79

Caitlin Brandon

Mantua

80

Cara Esposito

Clayton

81

Carleigh Gallardo

Pittsgrove

82

Carlo Profico

Clayton

83

Carmella Castelli

Malaga

84

Carole Trace

Malaga

85

Carolyn H. Gant

Franklinville

86

Casey Flory

Clayton

87

Cathy Culle

Clayton

88

Cecelia Trace

Malaga

89

Charles Chamberlin

Franklinville

90

Charles Schifano

Colts Neck

91

Charles Zanetich

Clayton

92

Charlie Bosco

Malaga

93

Chelsea Cossaboon

Newfield

94

Cherisse Watson

Clayton

95

Cheryl O'Hara

Clayton

96

Chris Colache

Williamstown

97

Chris Godfrey

Pitman

98

Christopher C. Sever

Clayton

99

Christopher Russell

Clayton

100

Christopher Senor

Franklinville

101

Chuck Esposito

Clayton

102

Chuck Grinnell

Clayton

103

Cindy Burgess

Franklinville

104

Cletus S. Beckel

Pittsgrove

105

Clifford Taylor

Malaga

106

Colleen Kohn

Clayton

107

Confesora Caban

Clayton

108

Corie Brandon

Mantua

109

Courtney McHale

Mullica Hill

110

Cynthia Merckx

Malaga

111

Cynthia Trasferini

Malaga

112

Cynthia Hetzler

Sewell

113

D.L. Marion

Turnersville

114

Dakoda Maynor

Millville

115

Damien Colache

Clayton

116

Dan Sommeling

Clayton

117

Dan Vassallo

Malaga

118

Danali Young

Clayton

119

Daniel Oyola

Clayton

120

Daniel Ramos

Malaga

121

Danielle Chamberlin

Clayton

122

Danielle McCord

Clayton

123

Danielle Pantaleo

Malaga

124

Danny Farside

Vineland

125

Dante Colache

Williamstown

126

Dave O'Brien

Pittsgrove

127

David Dowonta

Clayton

128

David Hughes

Clayton

129

Dawn M. Meyers

Clayton

130

Deb Ragone

Clayton

131

Debbie Iuliucci

Malaga

132

Debbie Sauer

Clayton

133

Deborah Luchay

Mullica Hill

134

Deborah Lugo

Clayton

135

Deborah Zanetich

Clayton

136

Debra A. Dougherty

Newfield

137

Denise Battle

Clayton

138

Denise Brandon

Mantua

139

Denise Miller

Clayton

140

Denise Morton

Clayton

141

Denise Shaw

Clayton

142

Dennis Zanetich

Clayton

143

Derek Flory

Clayton

144

Diane Hitzelberger

Clayton

145

Diane Trace          

Malaga

146

Diane Vassallo

Newfield

147

Dick Hughes

Clayton

148

Dino Atencio

Clayton

149

Dino DiCastelano

Franklinville

150

Dolores Lafferty

Malaga

151

Dolores Pfeuffer

Erial

152

Dolores Podsiadlo

Elmer

153

Dom DiPetro

Glassboro

154

Domenic Russo

Clayton

155

Domenica Trace

Malaga

156

Donald Keppen

Clayton

157

Donna Andrea

Clayton

158

Donna Kirby

Clayton

159

Donna Wilson

Malaga

160

Doris DeMatteo

Malaga

161

Doris Ruppel

Malaga

162

Dorothea Bosco

Clayton

163

Dorothy Erwin

Clayton

164

Dorothy Horady

Franklinville

165

Doug Ramos

Malaga

166

E.T. Selinger

Clayton

167

Earl L. Prous

Williamstown

168

Edward Mackewick

Clayton

169

Edward Wisowaty

Clayton

170

Eileen Scholl

Franklinville

171

Eleanor Donato

Vineland

172

Elesio Vianlargo

Clayton

173

Emil Lettica

Clayton

174

Emilie O'Hara

Clayton

175

Emily Atkinson

Sicklerville

176

Enrique Caban

Clayton

177

Eric Barrett

Clayton

178

Erika Zaruba

Franklinville

179

Ethel A. Pozzi

Clayton

180

Ethel DeFeo

Malaga

181

Eugene Melnyk

Franklinville

182

Evelyn M. Acevedo

Vineland

183

Feyance Previtt

Clayton

184

Fr. Jerome Romanowski

Malaga

185

Fran Emmons

Franklinville

186

Fran Schultz

Malaga

187

Fran Zeilman

Malaga

188

Francine Repice

Malaga

189

Francis Kelley Heiland

Hammonton

190

Frank DiCicco

Clayton

191

Frank Obert

Clayton

192

Frank Richer

Newfield

193

Franny Papiano

Malaga

194

Fred Ronzo

Williamstown

195

Frederick H. Blauth

Vineland

196

G. E. Brusizaker

Clayton

197

G. J. Swanson

Clayton

198

G. T. Swanson

Clayton

199

Gabrielle Preine

Mullica Hill

200

Gail Perino

Malaga

201

Gary Eastlack

Clayton

202

Gary Smith

Franklinville

203

Gary Zanetich

Clayton

204

Gemma Vassallo

Newfield

205

Gene Melnik

Bluebell

206

George Steinfield

Newfield

207

Georgetta Bucci-Bruno

Newfield

208

Gina Bosco

Malaga

209

Gina Trasferini

Malaga

210

Glemin Fabey

Clayton

211

Glen Ruppel

Franklinville

212

Glen Scott Ruppel, Sr.

Franklinville

213

Glenn D. Moore

Clayton

214

Glenn O'Brien

Pitman

215

Grace Lawrence

Clayton

216

Grace Carlson

Mt. Ephraim

217

Greg Duva

Hammonton

218

Gregory Profico

Clayton

219

Gregory Sentz

Newfield

220

Haley Colache

Clayton

221

Hannah Flory

Clayton

222

Harold Sims

Malaga

223

Harry McGruray

Franklinville

224

Helen Durham

Clayton

225

Helen Kilroy

Malaga

226

Helen O'Hara

Clayton

227

Herb Pfeuffer

Erial

228

Holly A. Flory

Clayton

229

Holly Fabey

Clayton

230

Iesha Torreibeu

Clayton

231

Irene Mick

Franklinville

232

Isabel Furtan

Clayton

233

J. Jess

Franklinville

234

J. Wengert, Sr.

Franklinville

235

J.J. Ruppel, Sr.

Malaga

236

Jac-lyn Zeilman

Malaga

237

Jacob Keppen

Clayton

238

Jacqueline Hetzler

Sewell

239

Jake Baluch

Clayton

240

Jake Muller

Clayton

241

James A. Castrelli, Jr.

Vineland

242

James Castrelli

Vineland

243

James Chamberlin

Franklinville

244

James Kelleher

Newfield

245

James Sieminski

Glassboro

246

Jamie Smith

Clayton

247

Jane Bruno

Clayton

248

Janet Walker

Bridgeton

249

Janet Webekind

Newfield

250

Janice Bosco Tacka

Palmyra, PA

251

Janit Peilher

Vineland

252

Jared Pennisi

Sewell

253

Jason Lapin

Clayton

254

Jason Lipsett

Clayton

255

Jayme Zeilman

Malaga

256

Jean R. Liberto

Blue Anchor

257

Jean Wacker

Clayton

258

Jennifer Cipollone

Malaga

259

Jennifer Hetzler

Newfield

260

Jennifer Olsen

Clayton

261

Jennifer Rowedda

Clayton

262

Jerry DiCicco

Clayton

263

Jerry Velazquez

Newfield

264

Jessica Eastlack

Clayton

265

Jessica Kasper

Clayton

266

Jessica Kelleher

Newfield

267

Jessica Lincoln

Clayton

268

Jessica Parker

Malaga

269

Jessica Zeilman

Malaga

270

Jewel Sauder

Clayton

271

Jill Sommeling

Clayton

272

Jillian Fabey

Clayton

273

Jim Brown

Clayton

274

Jim Waterman

Mullica Hill

275

Joan Carrigan

Williamstown

276

Joan Goodwin

Williamstown

277

Joan Stone

Malaga

278

Joan Wokveck

Clayton

279

Jo-Ann Annie Zeilman

Malaga

280

JoAnn Betz

Vineland

281

Joann Halg

Pittsgrove

282

Joann Laner

Franklinville

283

JoAnn Mills

Malaga

284

Joann Young

Clayton

285

Jo-Ann Zeilman

Malaga

286

Joanna Vassallo

Newfield

287

Joanne Canken

Clayton

288

Joanne Esposito

Clayton

289

Joanne Ryan

Clayton

290

Jocelenn Zaya

Vineland

291

Jody Nelson

Clayton

292

Joe Bruno

Clayton

293

Joe Podsiadlo

Elmer

294

Joe Revelas

Swedesboro

295

Joe Sansalone

Malaga

296

Joe Young

Clayton

297

Joey Russo

Clayton

298

Johamil Salcedo

Clayton

299

Jo-hanna Zeilman

Malaga

300

John Bryozowski

Malaga

301

John Gravenor

Malaga

302

John Griffis

Clayton

303

John Hetzler

Sewell

304

John Jakymczuk

Malaga

305

John Morton

Clayton

306

John Sarill

Clayton

307

John Shaw

Clayton

308

John Tiffany

Clayton

309

John Trovati

Clayton

310

John-Anthony Hetzler

Sewell

311

Jon Lawrence

Clayton

312

Jonathan Shaw

Clayton

313

Jos. U. Dorys

Newfield

314

Jose Del Carmen Espinal

Clayton

315

Joseph Coleman

Clayton

316

Joseph Kelton

Malaga

317

Joseph Nardalli

Franklinville

318

Joseph P. Moffa

Malaga

319

Joseph Sparks

Mullica Hill

320

Josh Griffis

Clayton

321

Josh Parker

Malaga

322

Joshua DeQueter

Clayton

323

Joshua Vassallo

Alloway

324

Juan Oyola

Clayton

325

Juanda Fernandez

Clayton

326

Judith Pidgeon

Wilmington, DE

327

Judith Preine

Pittsgrove

328

Julia Hetzler

Sewell

329

Julia Roman

Clayton

330

Julia Trovati

Clayton

331

Juliana Sieminski

Glassboro

332

Julie DeMarchi Heiland

Hammonton

333

Julie Kirk

Clayton

334

Julie Lincoln

Clayton

335

June Cairone

Malaga

336

Justin Shaw

Clayton

337

Karen DeFrank

Clayton

338

Kat Roberts

Clayton

339

Kathie J. Ramos

Malaga

340

Kathleen Castelli

Vineland

341

Kathy DiStefano

Sicklerville

342

Kathy Mensinger

Franklinville

343

Katie Griffis

Clayton

344

Kellie Kasper

Clayton

345

Kenneth Zanetich

Clayton

346

Kevin Clinch

Franklinville

347

Kevin Kelton

Malaga

348

Kevin Lapin

Clayton

349

Kevin Pain

Clayton

350

Kristin Battestella

Franklin Township

351

L. M. Swanson

Clayton

352

Lance Knisely

Malaga

353

Lane McCord

Clayton

354

Larry Geltzer

Margate

355

Larry Storniola

Franklinville

356

Laura Camma-Resino

Williamstown

357

Laurel Fabey

Clayton

358

Laurie Lettica

Clayton

359

Leah Vassallo

Malaga

360

Len DeFrank

Clayton

361

Len Lapin

Clayton

362

Len Sarill

Clayton

363

Leonard Goodwin

Williamstown

364

Lesley Barrett

Clayton

365

Leslie McFall

Franklinville

366

Lily Kirby

Clayton

367

Linda Bryan

Clayton

368

Linda Persia

Newfield

369

Lisa Bekeshka

Monroeville

370

Lisa Eastlack

Clayton

371

Lisa Lugo

Clayton

372

Lisa Sauber

Clayton

373

Liz Ruggerie

Clayton

374

Loralie Kasper

Clayton

375

Lorenzo

Haddonfield

376

Loretta DiMeo

Franklinville

377

Lorraine Clapp

Clayton

378

Lou Anne Hughes

Clayton

379

Lou Brown

Clayton

380

Lou Kohn

Clayton

381

Lou Kohn, Jr.

Clayton

382

Lou Sgorlon

Vineland

383

Louis Cairone

Malaga

384

Louis Zanetich

Clayton

385

Lucy Davey

Clayton

386

Luis Oyola

Clayton

387

Luis Riviera

Clayton

388

Luis Riviera, Sr.

Clayton

389

Lydia Carrigan

Williamstown

390

Lynn Atkinson

Millville

391

M. Elaine Sware

Clayton

392

M. Geri

Franklinville

393

M. Metz

Clayton

394

Madeline Moffa

Malaga

395

Maegert Claro

Clayton

396

Manny Claro

Clayton

397

Manny Wokveck

Clayton

398

Marco A. Riviera

Clayton

399

Margaret Bryan

Clayton

400

Margaret Wallace

Franklinville

401

Marge Kirsch

Clayton

402

Marge Lapin

Clayton

403

Maria Bella

Clayton

404

Maria DiCicco

Clayton

405

Maria Espinal

Clayton

406

Maria Ronzo

Williamstown

407

Mariann Metz

Clayton

408

Marie Bancroft

Malaga

409

Marina L. Stewart

Newfield

410

Marisel Rivera

Vineland

411

Mark Atkinson

Millville

412

Mark Morton

Clayton

413

Mark Ramos

Malaga

414

Marlene Alston

Clayton

415

Marlene Castelli

Malaga

416

Martin Kelley

Hammonton

417

Mary Anne Sena

Vineland

418

Mary DeFeo

Vineland

419

Mary Ellen Waterman

Mullica Hill

420

Mary J. Quinn

Monroeville

421

Mary Johnson

Franklinville

422

Mary Marion

Turnersville

423

Mary Mignogna

Blackwood

424

Mary R. Colache

Williamstown

425

Mary R. Rabne

Vineland

426

Mary Sparks

Mullica Hill

427

Mary Velazquez

Newfield

428

Mary White

Newfield

429

Mary Yoworsky

Clayton

430

MaryAnn Fithian

Franklinville

431

Marybeth Boeckle

Glassboro

432

Marybeth Owens

Clayton

433

Matt Morton

Clayton

434

Maureen Butcher

Pittsgrove

435

Maureen Geri

Franklinville

436

Maureen Kelleher

Newfield

437

Maureen Starling

Pittsgrove

438

Maurice Young

Clayton

439

Megan McCauley

Vineland

440

Megan Pontano

Sicklerville

441

Megen C. Keury

Clayton

442

Melissa Holden

 

443

Melnyk Family

Franklinville

444

Michael A. Cianchetti

Elmer

445

Michael Beer

Clayton

446

Michael Bryan

Clayton

447

Michael Chambers

Elmer

448

Michael Griffish

Vineland

449

Michael Jenkins

Newfield

450

Michael Kelton

Malaga

451

Michael Magliocco

Newfield

452

Michael McHale

Mullica Hill

453

Michael Menginger

Franklinville

454

Michael Pagano

Millville

455

Michael Sarill

Clayton

456

Michelle Boylan

Clayton

457

Michelle Metz

Clayton

458

Miguel Griffish

Vineland

459

Miguelina Salcedo

Clayton

460

Mike Blatt

Forest Grove

461

Mike Gaull

Clayton

462

Mike Lopez

Clayton

463

Mike Lugo

Clayton

464

Mike Vassallo

Malaga

465

Miller Mills

Malaga

466

Molly Atkinson

Sicklerville

467

Mr. S. Velazquez

Newfield

468

Mrs. S. Velazquez

Newfield

469

Nadine Ambrico

Bellmawr

470

Nancy Godfrey

Pitman

471

Nancy Kane

Malaga

472

Nancy Pantaleo

Malaga

473

Nardelli Family

Williamstown

474

Natalie Persia

Newfield

475

Nate Thomas

Clayton

476

Nic Blauth

Vineland

477

Nicholas Deitz

Newfield

478

Nicolas Hrynenko

Newfield

479

Nicole Bacher

Clayton

480

Nicole Hoffer

Clayton

481

Nicole Sieminski

Glassboro

482

Nicolina Candela

Malaga

483

Nicolle Russo

Clayton

484

P. Sarill

Clayton

485

Pat McCauley

Newfield

486

Pat Schnenberg

Glassboro

487

Patricia A. Mimuy

Clayton

488

Patricia Duva

Hammonton

489

Patricia J. Blauth

Vineland

490

Patricia Lipshultz

Franklinville

491

Patricia Wight

Newfield

492

Patrick DeFeo

Bridgeton

493

Patrick Kelleher

Newfield

494

Paul A. Betz

Vineland

495

Paul Arey

Pine Hill

496

Paul N. Gant

Franklinville

497

Paula Dalessandro

Malaga

498

Paula Melnyk

Franklinville

499

Pauline Blatt

Forest Grove

500

Pauline Taylor

Malaga

501

Pearl Richer

Newfield

502

Peggy Lisinger

Elmer

503

Peggy Pennisi

Sewell

504

Philip Quinn

Monroeville

505

Phillip Colache

Clayton

506

Piera Gravenor

Malaga

507

Pilita Porlucas

Franklinville

508

Polly Sergenti

Clayton

509

Princess Lugo

Clayton

510

Rachel Luchay

Mullica Hill

511

Rachel Ramos

Malaga

512

Ralph Cleo

Frankinville

513

Ralph Travaglione

Franklinville

514

Ramona Sansalone

Malaga

515

Rashawn Previtt

Clayton

516

Ray Gonzalez

Clayton

517

Regina Arey

Pine Hill

518

Regina Farside

Vineland

519

Regina Sims

Malaga

520

Renata Colache

Clayton

521

Renee Hubbard

Newfield

522

Renee Maurer

Malaga

523

Rev. Gannon

Cherry Hill

524

Rich Albano

Clayton

525

Rich Kilroy

Malaga

526

Richard E. Doone III

Franklinville

527

Richard Krug

Clayton

528

Richard Lincoln

Clayton

529

Richard P. Craig, Jr.

Clayton

530

Richard Webekind

Newfield

531

Rickie Krug

Clayton

532

Rita Alvino

Franklinville

533

Rita Griffiths

Vineland

534

Robert Ambrico

Bellmawr

535

Robert Furtan

Clayton

536

Robert Godfrey

Pitman

537

Robert Johnson

Franklinville

538

Robert Lawrence

Clayton

539

Robert White

Newfield

540

Ron Iuliucci

Malaga

541

Ron Vassallo

Alloway

542

Ronald Vassallo

Newfield

543

Rosalie B. Moore

Clayton

544

Roselee Papiano

Malaga

545

Rossi Family

Franklinville

546

Rubea Luciano

Clayton

547

Russell Buck

Clayton

548

Ruth Sottile

Clayton

549

Ryan Jenkins

Minotola

550

Sam Campbell

Willimstown

551

Sam DiStefano

Sicklerville

552

Sam Lopez

Clayton

553

Sammy Steenland

Newfield

554

Sandy DelPalazzo

Voorhees

555

Sandy VanDelft

Clayton

556

Sara Melnyk

Franklinville

557

Sara Truluck

Clayton

558

Scott Bryan

Clayton

559

Scott J. Sievers

Vineland

560

Shannon Muller

Clayton

561

Sharyn Beckel

Pittsgrove

562

Shawn Krug

Clayton

563

Sheena Otto

Franklinville

564

Sheila Smith

Clayton

565

Shelby Patrick

Malaga

566

Shirley Rumph

Clayton

567

Shonna Cooper

Clayton

568

Somer Knisely

Malaga

569

Stacey Yenelli

Clayton

570

Stephanie Kelton

Malaga

571

Stephanie Starling

Pittsgrove

572

Steve Martin

Clayton

573

Steve Yoworsky

Clayton

574

Steven Velazquez

Newfield

575

Sue DiCicco

Clayton

576

Sue Griffis

Clayton

577

Sue Hofer

Malaga

578

Susan Benarba

Clayton

579

Syed Benarba

Clayton

580

T. M. Swanson

Clayton

581

T. Mick

Franklin Twp.

582

Taylor Trace

Malaga

583

Theodore K. Heiland

Hammonton

584

Theresa Borda

Glassboro

585

Theresa Carlson

Mt. Ephraim

586

Theresa Keppen

Clayton

587

Theresa Paleri

Clayton

588

Therese Rizzo

Newfield

589

Thomas Bosco

Malaga

590

Thomas K. Metz

Clayton

591

Tim Carlson

Mt. Ephraim

592

Timothy Trace

Malaga

593

Tina Hayden

Franklinville

594

Tina Young

Clayton

595

Tita Lugo

Clayton

596

Tom Luchay

Mullica Hill

597

Tom Profico

Clayton

598

Tony Bauer

Clayton

599

Tony Brown

Clayton

600

Tony Yoworsky

Clayton

601

Tony Ramos

Malaga

602

Traci Atencio

Clayton

603

Trevor Blauth

Vineland

604

Tyler McCord

Clayton

605

Valerie Schifano

Colts Neck

606

Vanessa Caban

Clayton

607

Vanessa Hughes

Clayton

608

Vannessa Omari

Clayton

609

Veneranda Ramos

Malaga

610

Vicki Taggart

Clayton

611

Vincent Paglioni

Clayton

612

Vincent Sware

Clayton

613

Virginia Wacker

West Collingswood Heights

614

Viva Mackey

Clayton

615

Vivian Hamilton

Clayton

616

Walter Schultz

Malaga

617

Walter W. Clapp

Clayton

618

Werfy Fernandez

Clayton

619

William F. Walker

Franklinville

620

William T. Steenland

Vineland

621

Yasmin Espinal

Clayton

622

Yohanny Salcedo

Clayton

623

Zac Gaull

Clayton

624

Zachary Farside

Vineland

625

Zory Caban

Clayton

626

Zuleyka Salcedo

Clayton

627

Edward Zeuner

Hainesport

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Why Save St. Mary's?

What's true for OL Queen of Peace, Pitman & Assumption, Wildwood Crest is also true for St. Mary's Malaga:

"The people in Pitman bought that ground and built that church and it belongs to them. You can't just take it away."

-Anthony Mecca, Queen of Peace Parish, Pitman (also on the slate for closure), May 8, 2008

"This is God's house. Let us live here with God as we've done all these years."

-Fred Spiewak, Assumption Parish, Wildwood Crest, June 11, 2008

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