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Below you'll see Feast of the Assumption Day Twoa picture slideshow from the procession, hay ride, talent show, bands, inflatables, food and games booths, and more.

Thank yous
(focusing on Day 2)

  • Thank you to all who performed at the talent show, including Feast of the Assumption Day TwoEric King's Art In Motion Karate of Vineland (photo right), Jim Wilson, our parish music director who organized the talent and music (above), and all the participants.
  • A special thank you is in order for Joe Posiadlo for his construction of an amazing and beautiful bier for Our Lady (see photo below). We're sure it will be used for many years to come.
  • Feast of the Assumption Day TwoWhile we're at it with the thank yous, we should make sure we thank both of Sunday's bands, Mr. Tujays (right and above) and Jukebox Review. Both were excellent and so much fun, too. Thanks to Mr. Tujays for donating your time and talent to the church. We were so impressed with both bands--please make sure you catch them if you can! Both of these great classic rock/oldies bands are those of members of our parish, Jim Wilson and Kevin Kelton.
  • Feast of the Assumption Day TwoA big, gigantic thank you to Ollie and Corie from Plagido's Winery, Hammonton (right). We cannot begin to express all the complimentary feedback we received about your wines and sangria. In the words of one of our parishioners, "Now I know where I'm going to get my Christmas wine." Me too! (And Halloween wine, and Thanksgiving wine, and Easter wine, etc.) Please be sure and patronize this wonderful winery, open 7 days a week and owned by two of the very nicest people you'd ever want to meet. (Be sure to try the "Plagido's Choice.")
  • We would be remiss if we Assumption Feast 2009neglected to mention all the many people who gave of their time and talents to make this weekend possible, from planning to making phone calls to soliciting donations to stapling adbooks to setting up tables to answering the phones during and leading up to the feast to manning the booths to dressing up as a clown (???)...you name it. We are sure we'll forget someone in this list, but thank you to Dee Posiadlo, Kathie Ramos, JV (right), Tim Trace, Diane Trace, Bill DiMatteo, Mike and Danny Vassallo, Nancy Pantaleo, and most of all to the wonderful, talented, and unassuming Leah Vassallo. Leah, you are awesome. (Leah you can stop blushing and look at the pictures now.) Thank you to EVERYONE who worked so hard for Our Lady and for our parish. Please forgive me if I have forgotten you, my mind is like a sieve DSC_2370sometimes.
Finally, thank you to Our Lady under whose constant protection we find ourselves. We give ourselves totally to you. Please pray to your Divine Son for us and for our parish's continued protection from the onslaughts of the devil.

By the way, I have not yet had time to touch up any of the photos so if there are any blurry or sideways ones, I apologize! Hopefully I will have some videos for you soon. If any of you have photos you'd like to submit, please feel free to send them to us. The same goes for anyone who'd like to make any comments about their experiences at this year's feast. It was a great success.


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Here's Feast of the Assumption, St Mary's Malagawhat we have planned for the Feast of the Assumption, which begins tomorrow! Come join us, and for goodness sakes, remember to wear your special feast clothes (right).

Saturday Aug. 15th
  • Mass 5:00
  • The Snake Brothers (folk, country, do-wop, acoustic, awesome band), approximately 2:00-4:30pm (two sessions with a break in between)
  • In High Gear ("country rock" band), approximately 6:00-10:00pm
  • Shrimp & Clam Bar, sponsored by the Knights of Columbus
  • Food, food, and more food: Sausage, hot dogs, roast beef sandwiches, pizza (made by a parishioner!), meatballs, and more!
  • Beer Garden
  • Wine by the glass from Plagido's, an award winning winery
  • Inflatables and games
  • Pony Rides
  • Chinese Auction
  • Farmers Market (local farmers, including parishioners)
  • 50/50 Raffle
  • Balloons for sale

Sunday Aug. 16th
  • Mass 8:30 & 11:30, procession at 12:30Feast of the Assumption 08 Crowning
  • Talent Show 1-2:30
  • Mr. Tujays (band), 2:30-4:30
  • Jukebox Rebiew (band), 5-8:00
  • DJ Bill Mazza, throughout the day
  • Chicken BBQ
  • Shrimp & Clam Bar, sponsored by the Knights of Columbus
  • Tons of food to choose from: Sausage, hot dogs, roast beef sandwiches, pizza (made by a parishioner!), meatballs, and more!
  • Beer Garden
  • Wine tasting and wine by the glass from Sharrott & Plagido's. Both are award winning wineries.
  • Inflatables and games
  • Pony Rides
  • Chinese Auction
  • Bake Sale
  • Farmers Market (local farmers, including parishioners)
  • 50/50 Raffle
  • Balloons for sale

A History of the Feast

The Feast of the Assumption at St. Mary's--During a Bygone Era
by William Sansalone, historian and
"native of St. Mary's now residing in the Washington, D.C. area"

Most of St. Mary's founders were immigrants from Europe, and virtually all of their native villages had a patron saint. On that saint's feast day, the pastor celebrated a High Mass, and his parishioners organized a parade to honor "their" saint. Afterward, a public gathering took place featuring music, games, food, and fireworks.

Because St. Mary's of Malaga was named for the Blessed Mother, the Feast of the Assumption became--and has been--the parish's main celebratory event since the church's beginning in 1922. Back then, Mr. Giovanni Di Matteo, one of the parish's founders, was the main organizer of this mid-August feast. These celebrations replicated, in Malaga, the fondly remembered festivals of the Old World.

Parishioners blessed with long years and clear memories can still recall the sight of the statue of the Blessed Mother--festooned with ribbons on which worshipers had pinned dollar bills--being hoisted onto the shoulders of young men for the parade after the High Mass on Sunday morning. They can recall the sound of the Red, White, and Blue Band as it marched behind the statue westward on Dutch Mill Road almost as far as Malaga Lake.

Historic pictures from the Feast of the Assumption

As the young men carrying the statue of the Blessed Mother approached the Malaga Post Office--then situated on the northwest corner of what is now Old Dutch Mill Road and Old Delsea Drive--Mr. Corval Richman, husband of Post Mistress Pearl Richman, descended the post office steps with a crisp dollar bill in his hand (a significant amount then) and pinned it on the statue. This gesture by a non-Catholic was an expression of the regard he had for the faith of his foreign born Catholic neighbors. (Quite a few non-Catholic donors are listed on the Founder's Roll that has hung on the rear wall of the church for the past 87 years.)

Donators for St. Mary's Church
Shown above and below: Every last dollar that went into
building this church was accounted for

Donators for St. Mary's Church

After Mr. Richman's gracious gesture, the parade turned left and proceded onto Delsea Drive as far south as the Simms residence or the Bova farm or the Cesare farm (traffic was no problem then) before returning.

Historic pictures from the Feast of the Assumption

Historic pictures from the Feast of the Assumption

As the paraders approached the church grounds, they were greeted by the enticing aroma of zeppole (cruller-like fried dough) and other delicacies being readied for the afternoon and evening festivities.

Historic pictures from the Feast of the Assumption

Volunteer barkers urged people to "step right up" and test their strength and skill at knocking over bogus milk bottles with a baseball. The white bottles, made of wood with metal interiors to impart stability, were arranged in a pyramid 30 feet behind a counter. "Three balls for a nickel," the barker cried, "and one of these beautiful prizes is yours!" (The prizes were mainly stuffed animals.)

Young Raynard Infante from New York City, a relative of several area families, impressed local people with his Neapolitan love songs, which he sang from the bandstand that once occupied the area where St. Mary's outdoor shrine now stands. Another favorite amateur singer was Mr. Giuseppe Alvino, one of the church's founders, who rendered "O Sole Mio" with a fervor old-timers still talk about.

After a respite from the mid-day parade, members of the Red, White, and Blue Band took their places on the bandstand and entertained the crowd during the afternoon and evening. The music consisted of popular melodies, including ragtime and patriotic songs, mostly Sousa marches. The band's electrifying "Stars and Stripes Forever" preluded the festival's finale: fireworks.

As band members put their instruments away, firework technicians sent up aerial bombs that exploded high above in a cascade of color. This lured the crowd to the southern edge of the church grounds, where the rectory now stands. From that point, one could see technicians igniting the fireworks mounted on wooden structures on the knoll where the Malaga firehouse is today. Ground-level fireworks, including spinning wheels and "Niagra Falls," alternated with aerial displays depicting patriotic themes such as the Statue of Liberty, the Mayflower, and the American flag.

The fireworks (and the two-day festival) ended at about eleven o'clock Sunday night with detonation of an ear-splitting battery of explosives buried two feet below the ground--enough to destroy a small army. With the acrid smell of explosives still hanging over the church grounds, those who came in their primitive farm trucks and tin lizzies honked their horns in appreciation while others tramped home humming the songs the Red, White and Blue Band had played.

A History of the Feast

The Feast of the Assumption at St. Mary's--During a Bygone Era*
by William Sansalone, historian and
"native of St. Mary's now residing in the Washington, D.C. area"

* By clicking on the link above, you will be taken to our history page, which is identical to this one with the exception of having pictures as well.

Most of St. Mary's founders were immigrants from Europe, and virtually all of their native villages had a patron saint. On that saint's feast day, the pastor celebrated a High Mass, and his parishioners organized a parade to honor "their" saint. Afterward, a public gathering took place featuring music, games, food, and fireworks.

Because St. Mary's of Malaga was named for the Blessed Mother, the Feast of the Assumption became--and has been--the parish's main celebratory event since the church's beginning in 1922. Back then, Mr. Giovanni Di Matteo, one of the parish's founders, was the main organizer of this mid-August feast. These celebrations replicated, in Malaga, the fondly remembered festivals of the Old World.

Parishioners blessed with long years and clear memories can still recall the sight of the statue of the Blessed Mother--festooned with ribbons on which worshipers had pinned dollar bills--being hoisted onto the shoulders of young men for the parade after the High Mass on Sunday morning. They can recall the sound of the Red, White, and Blue Band as it marched behind the statue westward on Dutch Mill Road almost as far as Malaga Lake.

As the young men carrying the statue of the Blessed Mother approached the Malaga Post Offiuce--then situated on the northwest corner of what is now Old Dutch Mill Road and Old Delsea Drive--Mr. Corval Richman, husband of Post Mistress Pearl Richman, descended the post office steps with a crisp dollar bill in his hand (a significant amount then) and pinned it on the statue. This gesture by a non-Catholic was an expression of the regard he had for the faith of his foreign born Catholic neighbors. (Quite a few non-Catholic donors are listed on the Founder's Roll that has hung on the rear wall of the church for the past 87 years.)

After Mr. Richman's gracious gesture, the parade turned left and proceded onto Delsea Drive as far south as the Simms residence or the Bova farm or the Cesare farm (traffic was no problem then) before returning. As the paraders approached the church grounds, they were greeted by the enticing aroma of zeppole (cruller-like fried dough) and other delicacies being readied for the afternoon and evening festivities.

Volunteer barkers urged people to "step right up" and test their strength and skill at knocking over bogus milk bottles with a baseball. The white bottles, made of wood with metal interiors to impart stability, were arranged in a pyramid 30 feet behind a counter. "Three balls for a nickel," the barker cried, "and one of these beautiful prizes is yours!" (The prizes were mainly stuffed animals.)

Young Raynard Infante from New York City, a relative of several area families, impressed local people with his Neapolitan love songs, which he sang from the bandstand that once occupied the area where St. Mary's outdoor shrine now stands. Another favorite amateur singer was Mr. Giuseppe Alvino, one of the church's founders, who rendered "O Sole Mio" with a fervor old-timers still talk about.

After a respite from the mid-day parade, members of the Red, White, and Blue Band took their places on the bandstand and entertained the crowd during the afternoon and evening. The music consisted of popular melodies, including ragtime and patriotic songs, mostly Sousa marches. The band's electrifying "Stars and Stripes Forever" preluded the festival's finale: fireworks.

As band members put their instruments away, firework technicians sent up aerial bombs that exploded high above in a cascade of color. This lured the crowd to the southern edge of the church grounds, where the rectory now stands. From that point, one could see technicians igniting the fireworks mounted on wooden structures on the knoll where the Malaga firehouse is today. Ground-level fireworks, including spinning wheels and "Niagra Falls," alternated with aerial displays depicting patriotic themes such as the Statue of Liberty, the Mayflower, and the American flag.

The fireworks (and the two-day festival) ended at about eleven o'clock Sunday night with detonation of an ear-splitting battery of explosives buried two feet below the ground--enough to destroy a small army. With the acrid smell of explosives still hanging over the church grounds, those who came in their primitive farm trucks and tin lizzies honked their horns in appreciation while others tramped home humming the songs the Red, White and Blue Band had played.
Today is the blessed Feast of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel. Mass today is at St. Joseph's Church, Hammonton Votive candles and OLMount Carmel inside the churchat 2 and 7pm. The beautiful "emergence ceremony" in which the statues of the saints are brought out from the church, followed by the procession around town, is at 4:00.

Also, don't miss the food, fun, music, rides, and games. I am obviously not a member of St. Joseph's, but my wonderful neighbors are and the feast is a great blessing and a beautiful tradition. As they say in Hammonton, Buona Festa!

Prayer to the Blessed Virgin Mary

O exalted Queen of Heaven,
Supreme Mistress of the Angels,
Who from the beginning has received from God the power and the commission to crush the serpent's head,
We pray thee humbly,
Send down thy Holy Legions,
That they, under thy command and power,
May pursue the spirits of Hell,
Everywhere wage war against them,
Defeat their boldness and thrust them into the abyss of Hell.

:"Oh kind and tender Mother, thou shalt ever remain our love and hope."

Our Lady of Mt. Carmel, pray for us! Protect St. Mary's from the onslaught of the powers of hell. May St. Mary's continue to be a place of healing and hope to all who visit. Amen.

Above: Our Lady of Mt. Carmel and votive candles at St. Mary's Malaga.
In case you couldn't tell, I'm constantly reading children's books. We go to the library a lot. This last weekend I attended a Catholic homeschool conference with a friend of mine and found so many wonderful books. Some of the true gems, such as the great readers from the 40s and 50s, are books that are no longer in print. I'm sometimes asked what some good titles are for parents wanting to immerse their children in the Faith. Here are some I could not resist this weekend:

The Story of God's Love: My Bible by Melissa Wright. This is an excellent children's Bible. I've been looking for a good one for a long time. This one, I'd say, is ideal for kids 5-8. It is published by Pauline books and Media (the Pauline Sisters are sisters who publish various media and I recommend their materials highly, particularly their coloring books). $25 (The Pauline site is down so here's a link to the title.)

A Catholic Child's Picture Dictionary by Ruth Hannon. This is a beautifully illustrated picture dictionary, primarily on Catholic terms. Originally published in 1956, it is now put out by the wonderful Angelus Press: www.angeluspress.org. $20

A Child's Rule of Life by Robert Hugh Benson. This is a gorgeous, black-and-white book published by Neumann Press. It takes you through a child's day, including the Holy Mass. This book is indescribably beautiful. Perhaps I'll have time to post a picture and excerpt in the future. $20. Sold by Keller Books: www.kellerbooks.com (However I didn't have luck with Keller's search function, so here's a link to the title.)

Mary by Demi. This is a beautifully illustrated book all about the life of the Blessed Mother of God. It must be seen to be believed. Each page has a different scene from her life and Bible excerpt. Published by Margaret K. McElderry Books in 2006. $20 Also purchased from Keller Books. (However, no picture on the Keller site, so here's a link.)

A Treasure Chest of Traditions for Catholic Families by Monica McConkey. This book is a spiral bound activity book that takes you through the Church year and gives activities for various saint days and holidays. I was happy to meet Mrs. McConkey at the conference. Trained as an architect, she has many really great items available. Check them out at www.armadei.com $22

Make Your Own Noah's Ark by Clare Beaton. "Stand-up Noah's Ark scene. Figures for cutting out, coloring, and playing." A great book with readymade activity! Published and sold by the Paulines: www.pauline.org.$10 (By the way, the Daughters of St. Paul have a Books & Media Center in Northeast Philadelphia, well worth a visit.)

Though these aren't books, you simply must check out Jody's Hands On Learning. Jody, who I met at the conference, is a homeschooling mother who was simply trying to help her kids memorize their prayers and catechism lessons. She wound up inventing this neat system of games, devices, and activities. I hope to show them to our pastor soon. They are good for training altar servers, teachings kids their prayers, you name it. If your child is a kinesthetic learner (as most are) or if you prefer a fun, Montessouri-style approach to learning, check out her stuff!

Although I haven't yet tried it out, I subscribed to a year of CD-roms that will be sent to my house through the mail from Nippert & Company, also known as Catholic Art Works. I purchased the Teacher's Helper CDs. The idea is that I will receive them every month or so and there are many countless Catholic art activites able to be printed out from my computer, from art sheets to holy cards and beyond. I tell you the man's work is beautiful and I can't wait to try them out. The year of CDs, which can be used over and over again (unlike online subscriptions can be) cost $42. One of the projects he had displayed that impressed me was of a little altar the child could color, cut, and construct, and a priest. But if you turn the priest around, you instead see Jesus Himself. It is meant to teach that the priest stands in persona Christi. How clever.

Well, that's all for now, but it doesn't even scratch the surface of all we saw. If you would like more information on any of these titles and cannot find them through the webistes above, I'd be happy to talk more about them. Just let us know. Remember, these homeschool conferences aren't just for homeschoolers. Any Catholic can go and explore the wealth of materials available. Plus, there are excellent talks given and confessions heard, too. The one in Virginia was totally free, but more locally CHAPLET, a South Jersey homeschooling group, hosts one each spring at Mater Ecclesiae in Berlin, NJ that is equally good.
Just a couple of news items:

As many of you know, this weekend we had two Christmas parties: the CCD Christmas party, which was after the 8:30 am mass, and the Church-wide Christmas party, which was after the 11:30 am mass. Both were very well attended. The basement was packed to the gills and there was delicious food everywhere. It was fun celebrating and even watching The Sound of Music together. (And those homemade sauerkraut and potato pirogies were soooo good.)

The Angel mass was a great success. It was concelebrated by three priests and there was an amazing and delicious reception that followed. Thanks to all the women who cooked!

Please continue to pray for Bishop Galante. He needs our prayer. Please pray for nothing short of a total conversion. May he turn toward God. Mass is again being offered for him on Christmas day, as requested by James Stephenson.

The Christmas Bazaar on Dec. 6 went well. Thanks to everyone for your hard work.


Coming up:


On Monday January 5th there will be a Save St. Mary's meeting at 6:30pm in the church basement. If you cannot attend but would like to help please contact Leah at 856-692-0222 or Kevin at 856-694-2748. No matter what happens, we will not stop defending the Truth, which is the One True Church, against nothing less than the onslaught of evil! Join us.

Latin mass is 6:00am every Tuesday morning. The traditional mass is also offered every last Sunday of the month at 6pm. This month the traditional Latin mass will be on Sunday Dec. 28 at 6:00.

Our Lady Queen of All Hearts Praesidium of the Legion of Mary meets every Saturday at 10:30am.

First Fridays there are always two masses: 8am and 7:30pm.


Particularly for but not exclusively for the youth of our parish are the following:

There is Movie Night every fourth Saturday following the 5:00 pm mass. There will also be refreshments. There is always an edifying movie, often about a saint, that is shown.

Every First Friday, to coincide with First Friday devotions, is Family Game Night. Bring a dish and a game or activity to share. The evening begins at 5:00 with dinner, is followed by games at 5:30, and Rosary at 6:30. Sacred Heart devotions and Benediction are at 7:00, and Holy Mass at 7:30.


For the youth:


Junior Legion of Mary meets in the Shrine Room on Thursdays from 4-5:00.

Junior Choir practices Tuesday from 6:30-7:30pm. 


Christmas Season Schedule:

Confessions:
Tues. Dec. 23 from 7:00-8:30pm
Wed. Dec. 24 from 3:30-4:00pm
Sat. Dec. 27 from 3:30-4:30pm

Masses:
Wed. Dec. 24: Christmas Eve 5:00pm ("Children's Mass")*, 7:00pm, & Midnight
Thurs. Dec. 25: Christmas Day 8:30am & 10:00am (No 11:30 mass today so that Father and others can visit the sick and shut-ins of our parish community.)
Sat. Dec. 27: Vigil mass for the Feast of the Holy Family 5:00pm
Sun. Dec. 28: Feast of the Holy Family 8:30am, 11:30am, 6:00pm
Wed. Dec. 31: Vigil of the Feast of the Mother of God (Holy Day of Obligation) 8:00am & 7:00pm
Thurs. Jan. 1: Feast of the Mother of God (Holy Day of Obligation) 8:30am, 11:30am, 7:00pm

*Children's Mass nativity play participants need to arrive by 4:30pm!

St. Mary's Events

Don't forget that tonight is a First Friday. In addition to Sacred Heart Devotions, it's also "Family Game Night." At 5:00 there is potluck dinner, followed by games (bring one to share) at 5:30. Following games is Rosary in the church at 6:30, and then Sacred Heart Devotions and Benediction of the Blessed Sacrament is at 7:00. Holy Mass is 7:30.

This weekend on Nov. 8th and 9th will be a Holy Souls bake sale. Proceeds go toward masses for the Holy Souls in Purgatory. Please bring a donated item.

Junior Legion of Mary meets in the Shrine room on Thursdays from 4-5.

Junior Choir practices Tuesdays  from 6:30-7:30pm.



Join St. Mary's Youth Group!
August 2008

Bernadette

The sequel to Bernadette, this film tells the rest of the story of St. Bernadette's life after the Marian visions--the life that made Bernadette a saint. With another moving performance by actress Sydney Penny, this beautiful film reveals the incessant illness and suffering that St. Bernadette patiently, even cheerfully endured throughout her life in the convent, often repeating her prayer "to suffer and offer it to God."

  • Sunday August 10: Assumption Feast, following 11:30 mass. We need our youth! Please help us with the game booths, outdoor games, and other activities. Sign up sheet in the church.
  • Saturday August 23: Movie night, The Passion of Bernadette, the sequel to the movie shown on July 26. Time: 6-8:00pm following the 5:00 mass. Confessions are 3:30-4:30, rosary starts at 4:30. All ages welcome. Parents are welcome to stay or drop off child(ren). Children will be chaperoned until 8:00pm, Please come to enjoy the movie and refreshments!
  • Friday September 5: Family Game night. 5:00pm potluck dinner. 5:30-6:30 bring a game to share. 6:30-7:30 rosary and First Friday devotions. 7:30pm Holy Mass.

Please remember our other youth organizations:
  • Junior Legion of Mary, Thursdays 9-10:00am (summer), 4-5:00pm (school year)
  • Junior Choir, practices are Tuesdays during the school year from 6:30-7:30pm. The choir sings at various masses throughout the year.
 
Like many Catholic churches, St. Mary's has an annual feast for the Assumption of Our Lady. But the feast at St. Mary's is the church's very special feast and it actually predates the church itself. Below is the information about this year's feast:

Sunday August 10, 2008
8:30am-8:00pm
Masses: 8:30am, 11:30am, & 6:00pm

*Procession following 11:30 & 6:00 masses with rosary & litany of the Blessed Mother.*
*Confessions available*
 
Raindate: August 17, 2008

There will be food & festivities for the whole family!
 
  • Chicken Barbeque
  • Hot Dogs
  • Pizza
  • Kielbasa
  • Roast Beef
  • Sausage
  • Shrimp
  • Clam Bar
  • Baked Goods
  • Produce
  • Plants & Country Market
  • Hay Rides
  • Talent Show
  • Chinese Auction
  • DJ
  • Music
  • Games
  • 50/50 Raffle
Update: We just learned that there will be traditional Italian folk dancing at 1:30 led by Vivaci. You can check out their website here for more information. Sounds like a good time, can't wait!

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June 28, 2008: About 16 picketers stood outside the St. Pius X Spiritual Life Center today to let the bishop know that they want to keep their houses of God open. Sixteen people at a moment's notice, and on a lovely Saturday afternoon? Not bad.

Instead of standing outside with a sign, my son Theo and I went in to the picnic and were warmly greeted by a Sr. Judith. They even had face painting, a large selection of food, and games for the kids.

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As you can see from the pictures, we took advantage of the face painting.


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There were only about two dozen people in attendance. I had expected quite a bit more, and I suspect they did, too.

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We brought a bouquet of Gerber daisies with six little cards attached with prayers we would say on each. We also brought two cards, one on behalf of the campaign (and me personally) and one from my four-year-old son. My card had a picture of the Good Shepherd on it. On the inside it said (as I recall--I didn't photocopy it),

Dear Bishop Galante,
      On the occasion of your birthday, we offer this Spiritual Bouquet of prayers to you. As always, we sincerely pray that you be a true shepherd to the diocese, that you do God's will rather than your own, and that you spare our churches. We pray that you experience a conversion of heart...

It also said on the opposite page, as I remember,
A Happy and Blessed Birthday
Praying for your soul and those of the whole diocese

Theo's card said, "Happy Birthday" on one side and, "Please don't take my church away" on the other. (In the picture, his card is the one rolled up like a scroll.)

Spiritual Bouquet

Theo and I presented these to the bishop, who graciously received them. We asked him for his blessing, which he gave. He seemed to be in a very good mood, and it seems he will be on vacation at his beach house for about a month so that may be the reason.

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The picnic was open to friends and family of diocesan employees. I was never asked anything but my first name. Needless to say, no one knew who I was. The point, though, was for Bishop Galante to know we were there and that we will continue to make our presence known until our churches are safe. We continue to pray for his conversion and that he changes his mind and heart, and that he conform himself to the will of God. My family is depending on nothing less than this miracle.

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Courtesy of Joanna. Thanks!

Note: To be used in the events of life's daily struggles. We need help from the angels, the saints, and of course God Himself as the forces of evil surround us even though we do not see them. These are beautiful and traditional prayers. I thought the readers might be interested in reading them or perhaps using them as events may warrant in their lives.

In the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost. Amen.

PRAYER TO SAINT MICHAEL THE ARCHANGEL

Most glorious Prince of the Heavenly Armies, Saint Michael the Archangel, defend us in "our battle against principalities and powers, against the rulers of this world of darkness, against the spirits of wickedness in the high places" (Eph., VI,12). Come to the assistance of men whom God has created to His likeness and whom He has redeemed at a great price from the tyranny of the devil. Holy Church venerates thee as her guardian and protector; to thee, the Lord has entrusted the souls of the redeemed to be led into heaven. Pray therefore the God of Peace to crush Satan beneath our feet, that he may no longer retain men captive and do injury to the Church. Offer our prayers to the Most High, that without delay they may draw His mercy down upon us; take hold of "the dragon, the old serpent, which is the devil and Satan", bind him that he may no longer seduce the nations" (Apoc. XX,2).

SPIRITUAL WARFARE PRAYER

I proclaim Jesus Christ, Lord of all the adventures, circumstances, and difficulties of today. In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, by the power of His Blood, in the authority of His Word given to me as a Christian, I bind and reject you Satan, and I command you to leave! I seal this place, and all the members of my family, my relatives, and possessions, in the blood of our Lord Jesus Christ.

I bind and reject all familiar spirits, all companion spirits, and all carnal spirits, spirits of affliction, and all ministering spirits. I bind and reject all spirits in the air, in the wind, in the fire, in the water, under the water, in the netherworld, in the elements and in all satanic forces of nature. I bind and I reject all spirits of confusion, all spirits of division, all spirits of disruption, and all spirits of fear, worry, and anxiety, all spirits of disbelief, spirits of unforgiveness, resentment, and anger, spirits of deaf and dumb, spirit of disobedience, spirit of games, spirit of control, and spirit of retaliation. I bind and I reject all spirits and aspects and attributes of these spirits. I bind and reject all interlocking spirits. I command that there will be no communication between you or anyone else. I command that you leave quietly and immediately go to the foot of the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ.

I break and dissolve every curse, spell, hex, evil wishes, evil desires, and hereditary seals. I come against all Satanic vows, Satanic pacts, Satanic sacrifices, voodoo practices, mind control, and Eastern religion practices. In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, I break, and dissolve all links with false prophets, false visionaries, false mystics, and with psychics, clairvoyance, astrologers, mediums, seers, Satanic cults, fortune tellers, seances, Ouija Boards, Tarot Cards, and occult games of all kinds.

Come Holy Spirit and fill this place, corner to corner, ceiling to floor. Saint Michael, Saint Gabriel, Saint Raphael and all the Holy Archangels come and fight this battle for me. I ask the help of all the Holy Angels, Holy


Dominations, Holy Powers, Holy Thrones, Holy Principalities, and my Guardian Angel - Be my shield of defense against all evil spirits. I ask this in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ by the power of His Blood, in the authority given to me as a Christian.

Lord Jesus, I ask today for an in-filling of the Holy Spirit. Fill all the empty spaces within me with your peace, your love, your healing, and your joy. I also ask for an increase and release of all the gifts, power, and fruits of the Holy Spirit. The Gift of Wisdom, Word of Knowledge, Gift of Faith, Gift of Healing, Miracles, Prophecy, Discernment of Spirits, Gift of Tongues, Interpretation of Tongues, Deliverance, Inner Healing, the Gift of Teaching, Gift of Evangelization, the Gift of Service, the Gift of Encouragement, Gift of Leadership, the Gift of Preaching, and the Gifts of Joy and Laughter so that I may use these gifts cheerfully and enjoy the abundant life You have promised. Amen. Amen

 


Part 1: The Origins of St. Mary's
Part 2: 1922-1939: A Mission Church of Sacred Heart Parish
Part 3: 1939-1961: A Mission Church of St. Rose of Lima Parish
Part 4: Since 1961: An Independent Parish
Epilogue: Pastor's Vision for the Future
Acknowledgments: About this history

In May 1938, the Most Reverend Bartholomew Eustace became the first bishop of the Camden diocese, which Pope Pius XI had created by dividing the Diocese of Trenton in two. The Pope took this action in light of population growth in southern New Jersey.

The following year, Bishop Eustace formed St. Rose of Lima parish in nearby Newfield. Previously, St. Rose of Lima Church (as well as St. Mary's) had been a mission of Sacred Heart parish of Vineland. The Reverend Thomas Gooley, who resided at the rectory in Newfield, served as St. Rose's first pastor.

Because of Malaga's proximity to Newfield (two miles), the bishop decided to put St. Mary's under the administration of St. Rose of Lima parish rather than have it continue as a mission of Sacred Heart parish seven miles away. Thus, Father Fooley served as pastor of St. Mary's of Malaga as well as St. Rose's in Newfield.

St. Mary's First Improvements

During the period Father Gooley was pastor (1939-1944), he oversaw two main improvements in the St. Mary's physical plant: landscaping the church grounds and finishing the basement. To accomplish the former project, Father Gooley tapped the young men stationed at the Civilian Conservation Corps (CCC) camp in Bridgeton. (The CCC was part of the Roosevelt Administration's effort to provide young men with training and job experience during the Great Depression, when about one-third of the nation's workforce was unemployed.)

With materials provided by Messrs. Michael and Nicholas Cesare, the CCC men graded the area around the church, seeded lawns and planted shrubbery. They constructed a concrete walk leading from the front to the rear of the church, where the entrance to the basement was then located. These projects improved the external appearance of St. Mary's markedly because the grounds had never been landscaped.

Renovation of the church basement began by replacing the original wood-burning furnace with an oil-fired heating system. This change freed space that had previously been used to store wood and stumps. Parishioners poured cement over the unfinished earthen floor and covered the resultant concrete with asphalt tiles. They installed knotty-pine paneling, a new ceiling, lighting fixtures, and food service facilities. These improvements transformed the original basement into an inviting church hall and enabled St. Mary's to sponsor spaghetti suppers, card parties, bingo games, bake sales, and other income-generating activities.

World War II

The church hall became available at about the same time that ccivilian gas rationing was imposed during World War II. Loval Boy Scouts were enlisted to patrol the area in their uniforms on Tuesday nights, when the church sponsored weekly bingo games, to discourage anyone from siphoning scare gasoline from parked cars.

On other occasions during the war years, members of the St. Theresa Society used the hall to assemble kits containing a rosary and a prayer book. They mailed the kits to servicemen from St. Mary's, who served in the United States and in the Pacific, North African, and European Theaters of War.

Women were not included in the regular military services during World War II. However, they had the option of joining the WACs (Women's Army Corps) or the WAVES (Women Accepted for Volunteer Emergency Service), the women's auxiliary of the U.S. Nacy. Most of the women of St. Mary's contributed to the war effort by working on family farms or in nearby factories that converted to production of military clothing.

During the 1940s, the families of American servicement and servicewomen hung a rectangular flag with a white field in their front windows. A blue star for each person serving in the military was sewn on the white field.

Because the church's founders of 1922 had had large families and many of them had draft-age sons at the time of the attack on Pearl Harbor in 1941, the front windows of virtually all of St. Mary's appriximately 100 families had flags with one, two, or more blue stars. Fortunately, no family of St. Mary's Church had to go through the agony of replacing a blue star with a gold one--the sign of a fallen soldier, sailor, or airman. However, several were severely wounded in battle.

The Postwar Era

August 1945 saw the end of the war and the return of St. Mary's veterans to their homes and families. Gas rationing ceased and this enabled the Reverend Leonard Naab, who had been appointed pastor of St. Rose of Lima parish and of St. Mary's Church in 1944, to use his car to visit every Catholic family withing St. Mary's boundaries. These visits better acquainted him with his parishioners and helped him develop an accurate, up-to-date census.

During Father Naab's tenure, the church acquired its first stained-glass windows. Parishioners contributed funds for creatinig and installing twenty-two stained-glass  windows, dedicated to various saints (see Figure 5). Father Naab insisted on first-rate materials and workmanship. "The color in this glass will never fade," he said on numerous occasions. More than half a century has passed since he uttered these words, and his prediction has proven to be correct.

Church Organizations

At this point in St. Mary's history, three religious organizations existed: the Holy Name Society, the Sodality of the Blessed Virgin, and the St. Theresa Society. The Holy Name Society had been active for years; its men contributed many hours to maintaining the church's physical plant. Under the guidance of Father Edmund Aherne, pastor from 1954 to 1955, the Holy Name men built St. Mary's Shrine (located on the west lawn).

The Sodality of the Blessed Virgin can be credited with enriching the spiritual lives of St. Mary's young women during the church's middle years, and the St. Theresa Society--named after St. Theresa of Lisieux (France)--contributed to the purchase and maintenance of altar linens and church vestments. Miss Antoinette Cesare served eighteen years as its first president.

The 1950s

National prosperity was the hallmark of the postwar era, and this prompted the building of new homes on undeveloped land in the Malaga area. To accommodate the growing population, the church offered a second Sunday Mass for the first time. Thus, someof the Masses were celebrated not by the pastor, but by other priests. These included Fathers Peter Hughs, Cletus Moran, Cornelius O'Leary, and James Villani.

In the early 1950s, the church wasin need of expansion and refurbishing. Under the leadership of Father Edward O'Connor (later Monsignor O'Connor), who succeeded Father Naab in 1950, the church was enlarged by lengthening the altar end about fifteen feet. 

Father O'Connor moved the sacristy into the newly constructed area and used the space previously occupied by the sacristy to accommodate a new, reconfigured altar (funded by the St.Theresa Society). This made it possible to increase seating at the front of the church. Father O'Connor also made more seating available at the rear of the church by moving the organ and choir from the main floor to a newly constructed loft, located above the main entrance.

During the renovations, workmen removed the original tin coverin gonthe interior walls and ceiling of the church and replaced it with modern wood panelingand dry wall. To completment the structural changes, parishioners contributed funds for anew crucifix, tabernacle, and hand-carved statues (see Figure 5).

The Reverend Patrick Madden (later Monsignor Madden) was pastor from 1955 to 1961. He provided leadership for additional changes, including the installation of a new altar rail in 1957 and the acquisition of land across the street from the church (where the rectory now stands) the following year.

Despite subsequent changes, the church's interior retains the aspect set by the 1950s renovations. On the outside, the architectural elements of St. Mary's remain the same as those set by the founders. Embellished by both Gothic and Romanesque features, the church has served many well for seventy-five years (Figure 6).


Part 1: The Origins of St. Mary's
Part 2: 1922-1939: A Mission Church of Sacred Heart Parish
Part 3: 1939-1961: A Mission Church of St. Rose of Lima Parish
Part 4: Since 1961: An Independent Parish
Epilogue: Pastor's Vision for the Future
Acknowledgments: About this history

Part 1: The Origins of St. Mary's
Part 2: 1922-1939: A Mission Church of Sacred Heart Parish
Part 3: 1939-1961: A Mission Church of St. Rose of Lima Parish
Part 4: Since 1961: An Independent Parish
Epilogue: Pastor's Vision for the Future
Acknowledgments: About this history

In 1922 the Third Sunday of Advent fell on December 17, the day St. Mary's Church was dedicated. Hundreds flocked to the new church on Dutch Mill Road to hear the Mass's theme, "The Lord is near, let us be joyful." The people of Malaga were especially joyful that wintry Sunday as they witnessed the spiritual beginning of their own church.

The Solemn high Mass was celebrated with the Most Reverend Thomas Walsh, bishop of Trenton, presiding. He voiced high praise for Monsignor James Bulfin, pastor of Sacred Heart Church (seven miles away in Vineland), who directed the building of the church, and for the people of Malaga whose monetary sacrifices made it possible.

St. Mary's Early Pastors

The dedication of St. Mary's marked its beginning as a mission church under Sacred Heart. Monsignor Bulfin served as pastor of St. Mary's even though he resided in Vineland. (St. Mary's did not have its own pastor and rectory until four decades later.) Monsignor Bulfin had a passionate devotion to Catholic education. "Without the religious training of our youth," he stated on numerous occasions, "our churches would not be needed."

In 1933 illness compelled Monsignor Bulfin to forgo pastoral duties, and Father Francis Jackson inherited his superior's responsibilities. The untimely death of Father Jackson only four years later, which many attributed to the stress of Sacred Heart's Depression-era fiscal problems, was deeply felt by St. Mary's parishioners. Father William Hickey, later Monsignor Hickey, replaced Father Jackson and served as pastor of St. Mary's during its final two years as a mission church under Sacred Heart, from 1937 to 1939.

Sisters of St. Joseph

During St. Mary's early years, the Sisters of St. Joseph traveled from their convent in Vineland to Malaga to prepare the children for first Holy Communion. Mother Albertine, Sister Mary Edmond, Sister Teresa Carmel, Sister Grace Stanislaus, and Sister Mary Barnabas, like those who followed them, were devoted to teaching the Catholic faith and responsible citizenship during those Sunday afternoon sessions.

Each spring, twelve to fifteen children received the Sacrament. This was a proud moment for their parents, who were grateful to the sisters for helping them perpetuate their faith and thus fulfill the main reason for building St. Mary's. They were grateful, also, to the sisters for reinforcing their children's language skills, enabling them to participate more fully in the mainstream of American society.

Feast of the Assumption

Because St. Mary's was named for the Mother of Jesus, the Feast of the Assumption became the parish's principal celebration. The mid-August festivities resembled those of a typical Italian village; that is, a High Mass, followed by a parade to honor the community's patron saint and a public gathering featuring food, music, games and fireworks.

Parishioners blessed with long years and clear memories can still remember the festivals of the 1920s and '30s when the Associazione della Assunta, which was organized principally by Mr. Giovanni (John) DiMatteo, managed the annual event in the absence of an on-site pastor. They can still recall the sight of the statue of La Madonna (Figure 2), festooned with ribbons on which worshipers had pinned dollar bills, being hoisted to the shoulders of young men for the parade down Delsea Drive. (Traffic was no problem then.) They can recall the sound of the Red, White, and Blue Band as it marched behind La Madonna. They can recall the enticing aroma of zeppole (cruller-like fried dough) and other delicacies being readied on the church grounds for the return of hungry paraders.

Volunteer barkers urged people to "step right up" and test their strength and skill at knocking over bogus milk bottles with a baseball. (The white bottles, made of wood with metal interiors to impart stability, were arranged in a pyramid thirty feet behind a counter.) "Three balls for a nickel," the barker cried, "and one of these beautiful prizes (mainly stuffed animals) is yours!!"

Young Raynard Infante from New York City, a relative of several families in the area, impressed the local population with his Neapolitan love songs, which he sang from the gandstand in the area where St. Mary's outdoor shrines now stand. Another favorite amateur singer was Mr. Giuseppe (Joseph) Alvino, one of the church's founders, who rendered "Oh Sole Mio" with a fervor that old-timers still talk about. (Both Raynard Infante and Mr. Avino are shown in Figure 3.)

After a respite from the mid-day parade, members of the Red, White, and Blue Band took their places on the bandstand and entertained the crowd during the afternoon and evening. The music consisted of Italian melodies and patriotic songs, mostly Sousa marches. The band's electrifying "Stars and Stripes Forever" presaged the festival's finale: the fireworks.

As band members put their instruments away, firework technicians sent up aerial bombs that exploded in a cascade of color. This lured the crowd to the southern edge of the church grounds (where the rectory now stands). From that point, people could see the lighting of fireworks mounted on wooden structures on the knoll where the firehouse is now located. Fireworks at ground level, including spinning wheels and Niagara Falls, alternated with aerial displays depicting patriotic themes, such as the Statue of Liberty, the Mayflower, and the American flag (then forty-eight stars).

The fireworks (and the two-day festival) ended at about eleven o'clock with the detonation of an ear-splitting battery of explosives buried two feet below the ground--enough to destroy a small army. With the acrid smell of fireworks still hanging over the church grounds, those who came in cars and trucks sounded their horns in appreciation while others tramped home humming the songs that the Red, White, and Blue Band had played.

Bountiful Times End.

Suddenly, in 1929, St. Mary's parishioners, like all Americans, were hit with the devastating effects of the Great Depression. Cash incomes dropped as the price of produce plunged to just a few pennies more than the cost of the container in which it was shipped to market. But the Depression did not stop these energetic settlers from garnering food, fuel, and shelter for their children and their farm animals from southern New Jersey's rich, sandy loam; its red-cedar swamps; and its unspoiled, game-filled woodlands.

In addition to being innately resourceful, these sturdy men and women were capable of buoying each others' spirits during grim times. No one was more noted for this than the grandfatherly man who devoted the last eighteen years of his life to St. Mary's and the Malaga community.

St. Mary's First Custodian

Unlike most of St. Mary's early parishioners who were young, newly married immigrants, Signor Giuseppe DiMatteo (Figure 4) was an Italian widower who was seventy-three years old when the church was built in 1922. Today, some older residents can still remember Giuseppe, affectionately called "Zio Pepe" by all the children in the community, even those who were English-speaking. Giuseppe had immigrated from Campania in 1914, the year his son, Mr. Giovanni (John) DiMatteo (1879-1947), and daughter-in-law, Mrs. Antoinette Cairone DiMatteo (1887-1950), purchased the family farm on what is now West Boulevard.

Biuseppe spent his years in American on the farm, helping to rear his eleven grandchildren and working in the family vineyard. Using his pruning shears, sickle, and zappa (an Old World cultivating hoe), he nurtured the vines so they formed multitudinous, small green grapes in the spring.

As the season progressed, Giuseppe continued to coax the vines. The little grapes grew in the summer sun and matured into plump, purple fruit during the cooler, shorter days of September and October. The family made grape jelly with part of the crop, and Giuseppe would make wine with the rest.

A medium-built, muscular man, whose body belied his age, Giuseppe did more than till the vineyard; he also served as custodian of St. Mary's from its beginning until its death in 1940. The church grounds were not landscaped at the time, so Giuseppe used his sickle and heavy hoe to tame the growth outside during spring, summer, and fall. In addition, he kept the inside of the church in order.

In winter, the church was unheated during the week. Giuseppe would arrive early on Sunday to start a fire in the wood-burning furnace downstairs so that the church would be warm when the priest and worshipers showed up for the nine o'clock mass.

Giuseppe carried out most of his duties behind the scenes, except for the ringing of the bell, which he did with zeal exactly thirty minutes before Mass. Twenty minutes later, with early arrivals already in the pews, he would ring it again. During that era, St. Mary's bell was connected to a heavy rope that came down from the steeple into the church through a hole in the ceiling. (The hole in the ceiling above the choir loft is still visible.)

Standing in the main aisle below, Giuseppe would grasp the rope with both  hands and pull on it with the weight of his body. His initial efforts would cause the bell and its supporting mechanism to start swinging back and forth. The rafters would creak, and the bell would produce a soft ding. As momentum increased, the bell's hammer would strike its side more forcefully, and the dingdong of the bell would reverberate across the surrounding countryside.

For eighteen years Giuseppe summoned the populace of St. Mary's for spiritual renewal.


Part 1: The Origins of St. Mary's
Part 2: 1922-1939: A Mission Church of Sacred Heart Parish
Part 3: 1939-1961: A Mission Church of St. Rose of Lima Parish
Part 4: Since 1961: An Independent Parish
Epilogue: Pastor's Vision for the Future
Acknowledgments: About this history

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